What is the name of your state? CALIFORNIA
Brief summary....He cheated (no proof) 2003, he filed for a divorce, lost my house under extreme emotional distress went to court to gain custody of the children, after the state sent in a social worker and he (the ex) admitted in court to illegal drug activity the court awarded a 50-50 split custody of the children; no spousal support, no child support as there is a 50-50 split. I now, three years later, reside back in the home in the spare bedroom to take care of my children; he (the ex) still engages in illegal drug activity, is not engaged in the childrens lives, except to yell at them and me, I have no money as I am highly in debt from all of this and cannot afford anything. Is there anyway I can, without disrupting the childrens lives yet again, fix this? Gain custody,my home back and have him foot the bill for this? I know there is a loop hole law in regards to gaining the physical property under malicious intent (he did it on purpose when I was highly vunerable). I feel that my children and I got the raw end of the deal and yet I cannot move as I have no money, I will not leave my children alone with him. Do I just hang out until the youngest is grown? (another 10years)
thank you.
Brief summary....He cheated (no proof) 2003, he filed for a divorce, lost my house under extreme emotional distress went to court to gain custody of the children, after the state sent in a social worker and he (the ex) admitted in court to illegal drug activity the court awarded a 50-50 split custody of the children; no spousal support, no child support as there is a 50-50 split. I now, three years later, reside back in the home in the spare bedroom to take care of my children; he (the ex) still engages in illegal drug activity, is not engaged in the childrens lives, except to yell at them and me, I have no money as I am highly in debt from all of this and cannot afford anything. Is there anyway I can, without disrupting the childrens lives yet again, fix this? Gain custody,my home back and have him foot the bill for this? I know there is a loop hole law in regards to gaining the physical property under malicious intent (he did it on purpose when I was highly vunerable). I feel that my children and I got the raw end of the deal and yet I cannot move as I have no money, I will not leave my children alone with him. Do I just hang out until the youngest is grown? (another 10years)
thank you.