What is the name of your state? Missouri
I have been divorced for two years. My divorce decree has certain stipulations and judgements in it as do all divorces.
My X was ordered to pay support that was in arrears, he was ordered to pay child support on a monthly basis, he was ordered to pay certain debts , I was ordered to pay certain debts, and it was so ordered that the marriage was dissolved.
I have two questions. My X has not been made to do or follow thru with one single thing that the divorce said. I have not receive one cent. So I'm curious, since the courts don't seem to care anything about what the divorce states then am I really divorced? I do not mean for this to sound sarcastic but it just seems to me that the divorce decree isn't worth the paper it is written on.
My other question is this. I suddenly received a notice that I was being taken to court for one of the debts that HE was ordered to pay. I have already been forced to pay for most everything else just in order to live my life and raise my two children. For instance old utility bills. You can't get new service if old bills aren't paid. There is no way I can afford to pay for this debt I'm being taken to court for. I just barely can make my bills now. I need to find out if I have any recourse at all because I don't know how I'm going to pay this. I also can't afford any more attorneys.
I have been divorced for two years. My divorce decree has certain stipulations and judgements in it as do all divorces.
My X was ordered to pay support that was in arrears, he was ordered to pay child support on a monthly basis, he was ordered to pay certain debts , I was ordered to pay certain debts, and it was so ordered that the marriage was dissolved.
I have two questions. My X has not been made to do or follow thru with one single thing that the divorce said. I have not receive one cent. So I'm curious, since the courts don't seem to care anything about what the divorce states then am I really divorced? I do not mean for this to sound sarcastic but it just seems to me that the divorce decree isn't worth the paper it is written on.
My other question is this. I suddenly received a notice that I was being taken to court for one of the debts that HE was ordered to pay. I have already been forced to pay for most everything else just in order to live my life and raise my two children. For instance old utility bills. You can't get new service if old bills aren't paid. There is no way I can afford to pay for this debt I'm being taken to court for. I just barely can make my bills now. I need to find out if I have any recourse at all because I don't know how I'm going to pay this. I also can't afford any more attorneys.
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