wanderingstar00
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have restraining orders that need to be served to my ex-boyfriend. the police have tried to serve him once at his house and once at his job and could missed him everytime. I do not know if the people around him are lying to the police and saying he is not there when he really is there or what is going on. This 3rd time I was planning on having my grandfather go to his job (starbucks) with a police officer to serve him the papers but I am not sure what time or days my ex-boyfriend will be working this week and i'm scared to call and his co-workers cover for him again. Other than using a process server is there any way or advice in how I can serve him the papers or find out a way in where he will be at. Or if I do have to use a process server, do you suggest any good ones in the los angeles area. I could not sleep last night that well because I kept thinking about what I could do and get this over with so I can move on with my life. I want to call at his work and ask when he works but do you think I can even do that? And can a police officer go with my grandfather to his job or home to serve him the papers because my ex-boyfriend is very violent. Please help, any advice on how I can take care of this matter?
I have restraining orders that need to be served to my ex-boyfriend. the police have tried to serve him once at his house and once at his job and could missed him everytime. I do not know if the people around him are lying to the police and saying he is not there when he really is there or what is going on. This 3rd time I was planning on having my grandfather go to his job (starbucks) with a police officer to serve him the papers but I am not sure what time or days my ex-boyfriend will be working this week and i'm scared to call and his co-workers cover for him again. Other than using a process server is there any way or advice in how I can serve him the papers or find out a way in where he will be at. Or if I do have to use a process server, do you suggest any good ones in the los angeles area. I could not sleep last night that well because I kept thinking about what I could do and get this over with so I can move on with my life. I want to call at his work and ask when he works but do you think I can even do that? And can a police officer go with my grandfather to his job or home to serve him the papers because my ex-boyfriend is very violent. Please help, any advice on how I can take care of this matter?
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