No, I didn't assault her. I had left her for about a week before this, We had reconciled that night. I went and got the house key from her when I got off of work. She got off around 2:30am and came in hysterical because there were 2 bowls in the sink(She told the police this). She thought I had had a girl over and served her some sort of dessert. I woke up, and after about 5 minutes I realized that there was no point talking to her. So I told her that I was just gonna leave, I went to the door and she said that if I left she would call the police. I started to leave and she called them. So I just went and sat down. IMO, I dont know what the police could've seen on the scene. I was sitting in the couch waiting for them, and she was screaming at me when they walked in. She had a small bruise above her elbow on her inner arm. But I didn't give it to her, I hadn't seen her for a week leading up to this and it wasn't 5 minutes after I was awake that the police were there.
This girl has some serious emotional problems, Almost 3 months ago she was admitted into a Adult Mental Health wing in a hospital and she had to stay for a week before she was released, this was after she threaten to kill herself because "I was cheating on her.". She was told to follow up with a psychiatrist after her release, which she didn't. Over that period of time she has set up about 5 appointments with a Behavorial Health Center, and she never ends up going to the appointments. Which is a reason me and her broke up, She has jealous delusions, she is paranoid and VERY insecure. Anytime I threaten to leave her, she threatens me in some way. It's usually with the cops, she has even had to barricade me in the house before, or she just follows me down the street. She has actually called the police a couple months ago and told them that. "He is trying to leave me and I dont want him to."
Even though we have a no contact order, she comes up to my work everyday wanting to talk to me, calls my house. I dont want to call the police, because I really dont want anymore police involved in this. She said that she knows that she lied, she didn't think that the police would come and she didn't think they would take me to jail. I told her to just tell them that she lied, and she said she is afraid they will put her in jail if she tells them what really happened.
Yes, I had a drug problem. But that is a thing of the past. I served out my 2 year probation for that charge without a hitch and have been clean for over 2 years. I've never been involved with a violent crime my entire life.
I just want this resolved and I dont know how to handle it or what to expect out of it. The CA said that we were going to try to resolve it at the pre-trial conference.
