If you drop this order and he kills you or otherwise causes you injury do NOT complain to the police. He is playing with your emotions. How can you be sure he wouldn't harm the minor child? What if he just took off with your son? It is two days later and you want to drop it? Then you never really needed it. May you be protected if he decides to kill you. HOpefully he would only kill you and NOT his child. But who knows.
Parents should remember 3 things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex; when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death; your children determine what type of nursing home you end up in.
Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship.
Attorney-GAL in Ohio.
I've removed the knife from my back, polished it, and will one day return it -- long after you think I have forgotten.