WIResident8943
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Wisconsin
I live with my S.O., he has 4 kids with ex wife and 50% custody. Child ages are 5, 8, 10 & 13.
The 13 yr old has been physically assaulting her bio-parents and her siblings for a few months now. By assaulting I mean, punching in the face, throwing books at them, hitting them in the head with hard cover books, throwing cell phone at, throwing any hard object at, pushing, hitting, etc...
She doesn't respect anyone or anything. She will smash things if she doesn't get her way. If she knows 100% that something is MY personal property she will be extra hard on it, attempt to break it or break it.
We have her in counseling, but I feel that something needs to be done in addition to the counseling. Her behavior has been getting worse instead of better. She has also stolen property from me (I'm talking grand theft value here). She feels that she did nothing wrong, and shows no remorse. She doesn't understand why I'm mad at her for taking my valuables (I also have not gotten my property back, she "lost" it).
I have not pressed charges for the theft yet - I want to - but her dad is concerned about her well-being and has asked me to hold off. Charges will be pressed. I fear what she will do to me once I do press charges.
I do not trust her at all. I do not feel safe around her. I'm pregnant and the stress she causes me is very bad for my baby. I do not intend to move out of my home.
I worry about the safety of the other children. I worry about the safety of my baby once it's born.
What are our options for dealing with her? We're at a point where we won't leave her home alone because she can't be trusted. We can't leave her with the other children because she assaults them. She's 13 yrs old and we have to either sit home and keep an eye on her or take her with us wherever we go.
What can we do to protect the other children from her? Her bio-parents can fend for themselves, obviously, but the children are smaller than her and don't stand a chance. She will attack them unprovoked. She will be upset about something that happened at school or upset because her dad wouldn't let her get her way, etc... so she'll go corner the 8 yr old and start hurting her.
She hasn't laid a hand on me yet, but the moment she does I'm calling 911 and having the cops come out. I already told her dad that so he won't be surprised when I do it.
Is this a police matter or a social services matter? Both?
I live with my S.O., he has 4 kids with ex wife and 50% custody. Child ages are 5, 8, 10 & 13.
The 13 yr old has been physically assaulting her bio-parents and her siblings for a few months now. By assaulting I mean, punching in the face, throwing books at them, hitting them in the head with hard cover books, throwing cell phone at, throwing any hard object at, pushing, hitting, etc...
She doesn't respect anyone or anything. She will smash things if she doesn't get her way. If she knows 100% that something is MY personal property she will be extra hard on it, attempt to break it or break it.
We have her in counseling, but I feel that something needs to be done in addition to the counseling. Her behavior has been getting worse instead of better. She has also stolen property from me (I'm talking grand theft value here). She feels that she did nothing wrong, and shows no remorse. She doesn't understand why I'm mad at her for taking my valuables (I also have not gotten my property back, she "lost" it).
I have not pressed charges for the theft yet - I want to - but her dad is concerned about her well-being and has asked me to hold off. Charges will be pressed. I fear what she will do to me once I do press charges.
I do not trust her at all. I do not feel safe around her. I'm pregnant and the stress she causes me is very bad for my baby. I do not intend to move out of my home.
I worry about the safety of the other children. I worry about the safety of my baby once it's born.
What are our options for dealing with her? We're at a point where we won't leave her home alone because she can't be trusted. We can't leave her with the other children because she assaults them. She's 13 yrs old and we have to either sit home and keep an eye on her or take her with us wherever we go.
What can we do to protect the other children from her? Her bio-parents can fend for themselves, obviously, but the children are smaller than her and don't stand a chance. She will attack them unprovoked. She will be upset about something that happened at school or upset because her dad wouldn't let her get her way, etc... so she'll go corner the 8 yr old and start hurting her.
She hasn't laid a hand on me yet, but the moment she does I'm calling 911 and having the cops come out. I already told her dad that so he won't be surprised when I do it.
Is this a police matter or a social services matter? Both?