What is the name of your state, WA
I was involved in a domestic violence incident with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. I ended our relationship and she did not take it very well. We went to a bar and were drinking and I broke up with her. (never break up with a girl at a bar when shes drinking!)
I drove her home and she was crying, threatening to ruin my life, call my boss at work and a whole bunch of other stuff I walked her up to her apartment and she started freaking out trying to hit me. I grabbed her arms trying to keep her from hitting me and calm her down, it was impossible since she was in crazy zone. I pretty much ran to my car and left.
She called the police and filed charges against me. The police never came to my house and I was never arrested or gave any sort of statement. They took pictures of her and she has bruises on her arms from where I grabbed her. I called the prosecutors next day and its a misdemeanor DV offense.
About a week later I was talking to her and asked her why she did that when she knows its a total lie. She was upset finally said, i will tell the prosecutors the truth if you give me another chance. I agreed to this because I felt i had no choice and could end the relationship later.
We wrote a letter last weekend, i helped her write it. She sent in the letter to the domestic violence advocate on Monday. Wednesday the advocate called her and said that they have chosen not to file charges against me.
I tried to contact the advocate on Thursday but she is not allowed to talk to me. I called the front desk and they said they have limited information but my case shows it still shows pending and under investigation. They will barely talk to me.
I want to end the relationship, change my number and never talk to her again. But i am afraid she will be able to change her story. Like say I wrote the letter or something. Then get a protection order. How long should I wait to break up with her and get the order?
Do i get something in the mail that says the charges are dropped?
I was involved in a domestic violence incident with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. I ended our relationship and she did not take it very well. We went to a bar and were drinking and I broke up with her. (never break up with a girl at a bar when shes drinking!)
I drove her home and she was crying, threatening to ruin my life, call my boss at work and a whole bunch of other stuff I walked her up to her apartment and she started freaking out trying to hit me. I grabbed her arms trying to keep her from hitting me and calm her down, it was impossible since she was in crazy zone. I pretty much ran to my car and left.
She called the police and filed charges against me. The police never came to my house and I was never arrested or gave any sort of statement. They took pictures of her and she has bruises on her arms from where I grabbed her. I called the prosecutors next day and its a misdemeanor DV offense.
About a week later I was talking to her and asked her why she did that when she knows its a total lie. She was upset finally said, i will tell the prosecutors the truth if you give me another chance. I agreed to this because I felt i had no choice and could end the relationship later.
We wrote a letter last weekend, i helped her write it. She sent in the letter to the domestic violence advocate on Monday. Wednesday the advocate called her and said that they have chosen not to file charges against me.
I tried to contact the advocate on Thursday but she is not allowed to talk to me. I called the front desk and they said they have limited information but my case shows it still shows pending and under investigation. They will barely talk to me.
I want to end the relationship, change my number and never talk to her again. But i am afraid she will be able to change her story. Like say I wrote the letter or something. Then get a protection order. How long should I wait to break up with her and get the order?
Do i get something in the mail that says the charges are dropped?