What is the name of your state? ca
I have a TRO in effect and my hearing is this coming Monday.
Our relationship has been tumultuous from the start. The last blow out we had he filed a restraining order agianst me. I showed up at the apartment and a girl was there. I got angry and left.
I had told him I would contact the police regarding 3 seperate occasions in which he had stolen solar panels from private residences and sold them for cash. He also deals drugs. He has a group of friend that commit fraud w/ stolen credit cards and identities. I threatened to go to the police about all of this.
When I went over there the last time - I had informed him that I had contacted the police about the solar panels (not true) I was bluffing.
It is my belief that he filed this restraining order in retaliation against me. We both know that I am no threat to his physical safety or his well being. I am completely over him and have moved on.
He states that he suffered bruises on his arms and shoulders while I was there...this is true...I was hitting him while he was strangling me. I was flailing b/c I couldnt get any air. I had bruises on my neck the next day.
I never went to the police when he abused me...my bad now. On numerous occasions he hit me and caused injury to my body.
I have several police reports docmenting broken windows and harassment that have occured at my house - as well as an arrest from being pulled over and having methamphetamine and a pipe on his person.
The police have been called to his place several times...no arrests were made.
Do I have a leg to stand on? Or is it a matter of he filed first so he wins the order?What is the name of your state?
I have a TRO in effect and my hearing is this coming Monday.
Our relationship has been tumultuous from the start. The last blow out we had he filed a restraining order agianst me. I showed up at the apartment and a girl was there. I got angry and left.
I had told him I would contact the police regarding 3 seperate occasions in which he had stolen solar panels from private residences and sold them for cash. He also deals drugs. He has a group of friend that commit fraud w/ stolen credit cards and identities. I threatened to go to the police about all of this.
When I went over there the last time - I had informed him that I had contacted the police about the solar panels (not true) I was bluffing.
It is my belief that he filed this restraining order in retaliation against me. We both know that I am no threat to his physical safety or his well being. I am completely over him and have moved on.
He states that he suffered bruises on his arms and shoulders while I was there...this is true...I was hitting him while he was strangling me. I was flailing b/c I couldnt get any air. I had bruises on my neck the next day.
I never went to the police when he abused me...my bad now. On numerous occasions he hit me and caused injury to my body.
I have several police reports docmenting broken windows and harassment that have occured at my house - as well as an arrest from being pulled over and having methamphetamine and a pipe on his person.
The police have been called to his place several times...no arrests were made.
Do I have a leg to stand on? Or is it a matter of he filed first so he wins the order?What is the name of your state?