Ex husband violent VPO?

[stealth2]

Should have read all of the responses.

 

[Zigner]

She is NOT in contempt until a judge finds her to be.

We'll wait for you to catch up...

 

[stealth2]

We'll wait for you to catch up...

Fank you very much. I'd already read the story elsewhere.

 

[BlueCollar26]

Fank you very much. I'd already read the story elsewhere.

Appreciate you reading my story twice. Tough crowd over there.

 

[stealth2]

Appreciate you reading my story twice. Tough crowd over there.

LOL The crowd there is kinder than the one here. Do NOT delete a post here - that will cut off any help. We do not like deleters. At All.

 

[Proserpina]

LOL The crowd there is kinder than the one here. Do NOT delete a post here - that will cut off any help. We do not like deleters. At All.

Oh great. Do I have to go figure out who it is over there?

 

[stealth2]

Oh great. Do I have to go figure out who it is over there?

Heh heh heh, friend.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Several things I'm going to recommend here.

Document, document, document.

Firm believer that a picture is worth a thousand words. I would color code a calendar with pink and blue designations on whose days are whose. I would make sure that MOM gets it. Hand it to her. If she's not there, email it or MAIL it. Ignore the husband.

Did I say document?

You may have to file in court that mom isn't following the court order. If you pick up on Friday, a short text that say, "I'm picking kiddo up on Friday." Do NOT engage.

Address this situation in court with an alternative. Exchanges in public area without the husband.

Address in court that there are to be no weapons accessible when the child is there. Courts may be interested to hear that a felon has them.

 

[stealth2]

Address in court that there are to be no weapons accessible when the child is there. Courts may be interested to hear that a felon has them.

However, OP needs proof. All he has is the 5yo who told him.

 

[BlueCollar26]

Several things I'm going to recommend here.

Document, document, document.

Firm believer that a picture is worth a thousand words. I would color code a calendar with pink and blue designations on whose days are whose. I would make sure that MOM gets it. Hand it to her. If she's not there, email it or MAIL it. Ignore the husband.

Did I say document?

You may have to file in court that mom isn't following the court order. If you pick up on Friday, a short text that say, "I'm picking kiddo up on Friday." Do NOT engage.

Address this situation in court with an alternative. Exchanges in public area without the husband.

Address in court that there are to be no weapons accessible when the child is there. Courts may be interested to hear that a felon has them.

I have tons of documentation. I have tried to remedy the issues. I have went to DHS to send them CS so they would quit asking and also asked her countless time to come alone. I have exhausted my resources.

What is not being pointed out here is that he is in fact convicted and currently on probation for child endangerment and threat to perform a violent act. In which he did plead guilty. With that said he is not to be involved in the exchange of the child no matter what! I might add that if I do not let the department of human services DHS know of the altercations between her husband and I then I'm at fault now and if/when something happens. Both parents will be subject for allowing domestic violence to occur. Don't forget if the child was not involved and he is every time but if he was not then this would not be discussed.

 

[BlueCollar26]

However, OP needs proof. All he has is the 5yo who told him.

It will be hard to prove all he has to do is say no.