Oryan_Packs
Junior Member
Bronx, NY
I'll make this short and straight,
GF family are bullies, basically haters cause her life is better (they are fatherless and male less with children from different dad's yes.. one of those stories why I said I just getting to the points). They keep coming to our home at any time and all hours. They constantly making really hurtful emotional attacks on her and me (behind my back, my GF tells me.) when ask why not stand up, she says it's a Latino culture because all the males are deceiver and other things you properly hear. I told her that I'm about to start calling police on them cause they even go to say they want her to get my money to give to them (she gives half of her pay check). i keep telling her there's abuse and extortion. I tell her that she's an adult and that she has to file legal acts to stop them. I can see fear in her eyes the frozen look and the anxiety attacks.
So now I want to gear up for legal actions, my worries that I may not be able to get all the evidence without her. Of course I could just leave her to her fate but I do really love her.
What I need to know, what if I record (audio/video) how much weight does that have? what is the content should I have? I know it would just be only a restraining order but I figure police complaints might rattle them. Or I'm just in for a very long painful road.
I'll make this short and straight,
GF family are bullies, basically haters cause her life is better (they are fatherless and male less with children from different dad's yes.. one of those stories why I said I just getting to the points). They keep coming to our home at any time and all hours. They constantly making really hurtful emotional attacks on her and me (behind my back, my GF tells me.) when ask why not stand up, she says it's a Latino culture because all the males are deceiver and other things you properly hear. I told her that I'm about to start calling police on them cause they even go to say they want her to get my money to give to them (she gives half of her pay check). i keep telling her there's abuse and extortion. I tell her that she's an adult and that she has to file legal acts to stop them. I can see fear in her eyes the frozen look and the anxiety attacks.
So now I want to gear up for legal actions, my worries that I may not be able to get all the evidence without her. Of course I could just leave her to her fate but I do really love her.
What I need to know, what if I record (audio/video) how much weight does that have? what is the content should I have? I know it would just be only a restraining order but I figure police complaints might rattle them. Or I'm just in for a very long painful road.