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Old 10-02-2009, 05:35 PM
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland
Recently the mother of my 2 yr old daughter and I separated. We are not married. She was arrested for domestic violence against me. She then filed for a restraining order against me. We have been to court for that, it was denied. Today I received the court order. It does not metion all aspects agreed on in court. Namely she was to have herself removed from the lease , she did not, and it is not mentioned in the order. What do I do? It does mention our joint custody arrangement, in court the judge said whoever is getting Lola shall pick her up, the order says I will pick up and drop off. It also states that she is to pay 1/2 of day care cost, she has refused. Next month we go, I believe in front of the same judge for the domestic charge. And I have filed for custody date yet to come. She has left me as a one income household with barely enough to pay the bills. How can I get help?
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland
Recently the mother of my 2 yr old daughter and I separated. We are not married. She was arrested for domestic violence against me. She then filed for a restraining order against me. We have been to court for that, it was denied. Today I received the court order. It does not metion all aspects agreed on in court. Namely she was to have herself removed from the lease , she did not, and it is not mentioned in the order. What do I do? It does mention our joint custody arrangement, in court the judge said whoever is getting Lola shall pick her up, the order says I will pick up and drop off. It also states that she is to pay 1/2 of day care cost, she has refused. Next month we go, I believe in front of the same judge for the domestic charge. And I have filed for custody date yet to come. She has left me as a one income household with barely enough to pay the bills. How can I get help?
What exactly do you need help with? Could you be specific?
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First what do I do about the court order not stating all said in court...
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Recently the mother of my 2 yr old daughter and I separated. We are not married. She was arrested for domestic violence against me. She then filed for a restraining order against me. We have been to court for that, it was denied. Today I received the court order. It does not metion all aspects agreed on in court. Namely she was to have herself removed from the lease , she did not, and it is not mentioned in the order. What do I do? It does mention our joint custody arrangement, in court the judge said whoever is getting Lola shall pick her up, the order says I will pick up and drop off. It also states that she is to pay 1/2 of day care cost, she has refused. Next month we go, I believe in front of the same judge for the domestic charge. And I have filed for custody date yet to come. She has left me as a one income household with barely enough to pay the bills. How can I get help?


What exactly does the court order address? Why were you in court, if not for custody?
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Old 10-02-2009, 06:32 PM
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Was the protective order.
1. Sharing custody
2. Says I will pick up and drop off Lola for visitation... Judge said whoever is getting Lola picks up
3. Does not mention she must remove name from lease, which he said. Instead states she shall return home
4. Does not stae contact only if dealing with our daughter, which he said
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Was the protective order.
1. Sharing custody
2. Says I will pick up and drop off Lola for visitation... Judge said whoever is getting Lola picks up
3. Does not mention she must remove name from lease, which he said. Instead states she shall return home
4. Does not stae contact only if dealing with our daughter, which he said
So the protective order hearing resulted in a temporary custody order, yes? Is there a specific time limit after which the order will expire? Do you have a date for the final custody hearing?
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Old 10-02-2009, 07:55 PM
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No Not yet
You can try to appeal it but I'm not sure how successful you'll be - if for no other reason that by the time the appeal is heard the actual custody hearing may have been decided.

When did you file for custody?
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They said it could take a month or more to serve mom. Then she has an month to respond.
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Old 10-06-2009, 09:00 PM
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are you pro se?

You can request the transcript so you have a record, and ask for a clarification. It is possible that you could have the actual custody hearing before the clarification is completed. The transcript may be helpful for the custody hearing. Especially if she is already disobeying the current order.
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