What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA, but I live in NV
I struggled with a cocaine addiction, and my ex-wife filed for a restraining order, using a compilation of unacceptable texts and emails that were sent during the height of active addiction. The correspondence were completely unacceptable, though never involving direct threats to her, and NEVER towards my beautiful children. I have since gained my sobriety, and I'm currently rebuilding my life. I was unable to attend the hearing, as it was in CA, and I live in Las Vegas and have no financial means to travel. The judge granted a 3-year order, also granting her sole custody for that time with no visitation.
My children are my whole world, and their moving to CA was when my downward spiral began. Prior to that, I was an average normal firefighter with no drug or alcohol problems. All I want is a chance to prove my sobriety and mental stability to the court, and my ex-wife in order to regain my visitation and joint custody. I'm completely willing to do whatever it takes.
What are my options? Can I fix this? What course of action should I take?
I have followed the orders to the letter, and will continue to do so, but not having contact with my children is a nightmare.
I sincerely appreciate any adviceWhat is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I struggled with a cocaine addiction, and my ex-wife filed for a restraining order, using a compilation of unacceptable texts and emails that were sent during the height of active addiction. The correspondence were completely unacceptable, though never involving direct threats to her, and NEVER towards my beautiful children. I have since gained my sobriety, and I'm currently rebuilding my life. I was unable to attend the hearing, as it was in CA, and I live in Las Vegas and have no financial means to travel. The judge granted a 3-year order, also granting her sole custody for that time with no visitation.
My children are my whole world, and their moving to CA was when my downward spiral began. Prior to that, I was an average normal firefighter with no drug or alcohol problems. All I want is a chance to prove my sobriety and mental stability to the court, and my ex-wife in order to regain my visitation and joint custody. I'm completely willing to do whatever it takes.
What are my options? Can I fix this? What course of action should I take?
I have followed the orders to the letter, and will continue to do so, but not having contact with my children is a nightmare.
I sincerely appreciate any adviceWhat is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?