Hoosiermomof4
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
Son's father (we have joint and joint physical custody) no CS is paid by either of us b/c we equally take care of him.
He is 14 (too old to get spanked) he was hit w/ belt and the following day he tells me, he shows me from his butt check down his thigh is large bruises, I am not talking small lines from the edge of the belt, I'm talking the whole area is purple and black. I am horrified.
I contact ex, to which I get the whole he deserved it. Maybe I did hit him a little too hard, but a belt will always leave marks, my parents did this and that blah blah.
I called CPS, they came, took pics, called in ex, he admits it all of course.
They assure me that he will no longer see son if he doesn't go to anger management at the least.
Well this was a while ago, they didn't make him do crap! I called to follow up and of course on the phone she tells me how he is an abuser basically and will be forced to get help, but months go by nothing. I called back, case closed. I am told now in Indiana a parent can spank however they feel appropriate.
I'm so ticked!
Son's father (we have joint and joint physical custody) no CS is paid by either of us b/c we equally take care of him.
He is 14 (too old to get spanked) he was hit w/ belt and the following day he tells me, he shows me from his butt check down his thigh is large bruises, I am not talking small lines from the edge of the belt, I'm talking the whole area is purple and black. I am horrified.
I contact ex, to which I get the whole he deserved it. Maybe I did hit him a little too hard, but a belt will always leave marks, my parents did this and that blah blah.
I called CPS, they came, took pics, called in ex, he admits it all of course.
They assure me that he will no longer see son if he doesn't go to anger management at the least.
Well this was a while ago, they didn't make him do crap! I called to follow up and of course on the phone she tells me how he is an abuser basically and will be forced to get help, but months go by nothing. I called back, case closed. I am told now in Indiana a parent can spank however they feel appropriate.
I'm so ticked!