What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington
On Saturday, my fiancée was celebrating his birthday and had too much to drink. He got upset with me and we began to argue. When I tried to leave the room he did grab me by my wrists. He also pushed me, at which point I grabbed his shirt and it ripped. Because he was drunk, and I had ripped his shirt, he called 911. I DID NOT CALL 911!! When the police arrived, I told them what had happened, and because he was the "primary aggressor" they arrested him. He was charged with Assault 4, and plead not guilty this morning. However, the no contact order is still in place. I was supposed to have received a "victim statement form" in the mail, but they apparently had the wrong mailing address for me.
Once I fill out the "victim statement" stating that I did not call 911, I did not feel threatened, I did not want him arrested, and I do not want a no-contact order what are the chances that the charges will be dropped and that he'll be able to come home?