CdwJava;3269604]The implication was that men are not most often the abusers and this is simply, categorically and empirically untrue.
I never said that but I did say it is irrelevant as it causes responders to be blinded by that fact.
You must be operating in a different legal system then we have in the US as that is the legal standard and burden of proof that must be met by a prosecutor before a jury (or, a judge, in the case of a court trial - the defendant's option, by the way).
nope. same ol' system. that is the purpose of stacking the charges so you never get to the proving it situation. So far it's been working for the courts.
If a defendant chooses not to avail themselves of the options available to them that's their choice. The standard is still "beyond a reasonable doubt." If the state does not have to prove their case, that's the defendant's call.
again, it becomes a lesser of the evils, even if none of them are actually valid.
yes, some prosecutors tend to stack charges. But, stacking charges that cannot be proven is still a losing case. And stacking occurs everywhere and continues to be debated in every state for a host of offenses unrelated to DV.
with every charge tossed on you increase the cost of defending yourself and you increase the odds of one of the charges sticking. Our system is very flawed. Too many innocent people have been proven guilty.
I would think that your definition of "a lot" might vary from mine.
I doubt
Quite honestly, in those instances where I have seen a guy likely "railroaded," he has been a fool to remain in a situation where - I the words of Gordon Graham - you can see that train a-comin'!
OH HOLY ****. So now it's a: the guy deserves it because he wanted to make the relationship work or there were very few alternatives when there isn't a lot of money laying around so he can just go and buy another house or a million reasons he stayed.
for all that is Holy and Sacred, that is the most unprofessional thing I have ever heard you say.
He deserved it. Great attitude.
A guy that stays in a volatile relationship with a woman who is always arguing with him and the cops are getting called by her or their neighbors is simply a fool.
but that doesn't make him a fool guilty of domestic violence.
But, as the police are simply required to act upon probable cause and not absolute proof, the burden for an arrest is relatively easy.
yep, PC is pretty easy to see, especially with a jaded attitude.
Many DV cases are not prosecuted for a combination of reasons - most often because the victim refuses to cooperate (75%+ of the time) or the matter is objectively impossible to prove beyond a reasonable doubt.
So, let me tell you a story about somebody that decided not to cooperate.
this actually happened to a family not far from where I live. Son and father got into a fight. Not serious. No injuries. Police were called. (not by the parties involved) Father was arrested. Son, not wanting dad to go to jail and having a reasonable mind seeing that this was not proper given the situation decided to not show up for court. He was arrested for contempt of court. The charges against dad had been dropped, and yes, quite likely due to the son not showing up. Son sat in jail for a week, (last time I had heard since he was in jail at the time I learned of the situation and I'm not so close I keep close absolute up do date info of the issue and this was not but a couple months ago) awaiting a hearing on the contempt charge.
It's a system that is going to exact its' vengeance upon somebody, no matter if it is truly deserved or not.
Oh, and abusers lie, too.
absolutely agreed/
Most recant for reasons to involved to get into here. DV victims are victims in more ways than just the physical violence. There is a psychological component involved as well that plays into their actions and explains why they act in the way they do and will eve risk jail to protect their abuser. More often than not the abuse is far more insidious than merely the physical aspect and includes excessive, OBsessive, and controlling behaviors in a host of other realms in addition to the physical.
and sometimes it's because they realize that what is about to happen is much more severe than anything that happened during the incident that brought them to this point.
There are some excellent studies and books out there on the topic.
I'll have to do that.
And you would suggest ... what? Given the number of filings vs. the number of guilty verdicts or pleas, I would suggest that traffic offenses have a far greater guilty rating.
in my county, the courts have a 98% conviction rate. You can try to compare anything you want to anything you want. It is irrelevant when you have numbers that high.
and no, it isn't because they arrest only guilty people. The system in my county is excellent at stacking the Hell out of charges so as to make the offer that follows the only real alternative. I would love to see a comparison of actual guilty verdicts from a jury and guilty verdicts from plea bargains though. I think that would be quite telling.
But, I know that guilt in DV cases is no greater than guilt in other cases ... why? Because the DA gets to choose what to file, and with some few exceptions (such as a DA who has a policy to file on ANY DV) they file only on those cases they believe they can win. And most cases plead out - very few go to trial. Ever.
and the prosecutor is the one that adds on the additional charges so they can bargain a win. I have seen it in too many cases around me to know what they do. Cases I actually know enough true facts about so I do know the truth behind them. Sorry Carl but I think you are buying into "the system" too much. I have always respected your opinion but on this one, I know for a fact you are way off base.
An arrest is still based upon probable cause (as are ALL arrests).
PC is nothing. example; police report to a DV call. wife has a bruise on her forehead claims husband hit her. Husband claims she walked into the door. We have PC for an arrest for DV. The problem, the guy was telling the truth but he still gets arrested because of that tilted view the cops have; the guy has to be guilty because his wife said so.
so don't bother with arguing PC. The hurdle is so low I would be bothered if the cop couldn't find PC. He would have to be blind to not be able to find something reaching the level of PC in almost any DV call.
Proof at trial must be beyond a reasonable doubt (as is the burden for ALL convictions). And the DA doesn't file on cases he cannot prove, so of course the wins are exceedingly high ... but, this is true for ALL crimes, not just DVs.
at trial, yep. Care to research how many plea bargains compared to trials there are?
In CA a great many DVs do not get filed for a host of reasons. i can't speak for other states, but I suspect the numbers are similar.
I suspect my area is very different than yours. The prosecutors around here seem to have no problem filing anything that comes close to DV.
Take a moment to read up on the ACTUAL sentences for the majority of first offense DVs in the US. You should find that most of them end up on probation and counseling, NOT imprisonment.
sure. that is how the system is designed. We file 4 charges. offer to dismiss all but one and offer probation. The court has it's conviction and it's because the guy figured he might be able to defend the one valid charge but the others stacked on? How much is he willing to gamble he wins all of them?
Once upon a time we granted the police and the courts much greater discretion in dealing with DV issues. This hands-off "it's a family matter" policy not only created an ongoing perpetuation of domestic violence, but resulted in far greater injury and death. Yes, death.
yep and a perfect example is the case that happened about 40 miles from me. Wife was actively (and I mean actively) being pursued by her husband. She feared for her life. Cops ignored her pleas. They found her body the next day. what is worse is this was an ongoing issue with them. There was a restraining order but she was told unless he is physically in her presence, he has not violated it (and we know that is wrong but like usual, what proof is there he violated it).
so, unless she actually waited for her husband to catch up to her (and she had a fear of her life so that is a pretty dumb thing to do), the cops would not respond because he was not in her presence and therefor violating the order.
talk about f'd up.
The cycle is insidious and passed on to succeeding generations; it is a learned behavior by both girls and boys. It is insidious, destructive, and must be stopped.
absolutely and the courts have determined it is stopped by putting somebody in jail, or if not, separating them for a very long time so there can be no counseling, quite possibly causing homelessness (even more so now than ever before due to the economic climate), and often a divorce because it pushes the people apart. The system doesn't give a damn about the relationship. All it cares about is:
well, one more DV win on the record. Aren't we being a responsible government and boy do we provide for a safe place to live.
bull****.