jamieraebaby
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina
My husband was charged with CDV against me. I gave police his drug paraphenila and the two older children made incriminating statements against him. He immedialty sought help through the VA for Anger Management and we are schedualed for marriage counseling. I talk to the Solictor Sececretary and Victims advocate about dropping the charges and gave them the paperwork from the VA about his sessions, but they said I cant drop the charges and that they likley won't because I gave up drug paraphenilia (crack pipe). They said they can reccommend PTI so he will not get a conviction. My husband says he is not doing PTI and he will get a lawyer and take it to trial. I am not alowed to recant my statement or I will be charged with a false report. If he is convicted, he will lose his job with the News station he works at and my children and I will lose our home. Is it safer to just have him do the PTI which is 700 bucks or get a lawyer which is more. Oh and we are poor with a mortgage and 3 kids.
We dont have the 700. We dont even know how to get it. ANd we hit eachother. It's more of a marriage problem. I have hit him in fights before but he didnt call the police. He is actively seeking help for his drug and anger issues through the VA clinic. I will be attending counseling there with him also once the "NO contact order" is up. I just need this to go away so we can fix our lives ourselves.
My husband was charged with CDV against me. I gave police his drug paraphenila and the two older children made incriminating statements against him. He immedialty sought help through the VA for Anger Management and we are schedualed for marriage counseling. I talk to the Solictor Sececretary and Victims advocate about dropping the charges and gave them the paperwork from the VA about his sessions, but they said I cant drop the charges and that they likley won't because I gave up drug paraphenilia (crack pipe). They said they can reccommend PTI so he will not get a conviction. My husband says he is not doing PTI and he will get a lawyer and take it to trial. I am not alowed to recant my statement or I will be charged with a false report. If he is convicted, he will lose his job with the News station he works at and my children and I will lose our home. Is it safer to just have him do the PTI which is 700 bucks or get a lawyer which is more. Oh and we are poor with a mortgage and 3 kids.
We dont have the 700. We dont even know how to get it. ANd we hit eachother. It's more of a marriage problem. I have hit him in fights before but he didnt call the police. He is actively seeking help for his drug and anger issues through the VA clinic. I will be attending counseling there with him also once the "NO contact order" is up. I just need this to go away so we can fix our lives ourselves.
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