Florida
About six month ago I filed for a temporary Protection Order against Domestic Violence that was made permanent 4 month ago.
I feel that my husband has learned his lesson and we want to try to work out our problems and since he still has criminal charges that will be addressed next month, he will most likely go to a batterers intervention course since this was his first offense.
I filed a Motion to modify the Protection Order not only because I want to give my husband a second chance, but also because my mother in law who is the designated person to pick up our toddler for time sharing has been uncooperative, never in time, comes with an antagonizing behavior hard-knocking on my door and yelling outside, making my daughter nervous and has even put my child in danger by not buckling up and just sitting him on the car seat because "she doesn't know how to do it".
I explained my mother in law's behavior to the Judge, since we don't have anybody else to pick up our child and asked her to Modify the Order removing the "no contact" part so my husband and I can freely arrange the visitation schedule and not being so limited in case of an emergency, etc. I also asked to drop the order "not to remove the child from the Jurisdiction" and to keep the "no violence" and the "emergency child support"
However, the Judge denied my request implying that I might be "under pressure" and now I don't know what to do since there are still 8 months to go until it expires. What are our options? Can I file again? Can he file? Is it better to wait until after his hearing about the criminal charges?
What to do in order to be able to reunite my family back together?
About six month ago I filed for a temporary Protection Order against Domestic Violence that was made permanent 4 month ago.
I feel that my husband has learned his lesson and we want to try to work out our problems and since he still has criminal charges that will be addressed next month, he will most likely go to a batterers intervention course since this was his first offense.
I filed a Motion to modify the Protection Order not only because I want to give my husband a second chance, but also because my mother in law who is the designated person to pick up our toddler for time sharing has been uncooperative, never in time, comes with an antagonizing behavior hard-knocking on my door and yelling outside, making my daughter nervous and has even put my child in danger by not buckling up and just sitting him on the car seat because "she doesn't know how to do it".
I explained my mother in law's behavior to the Judge, since we don't have anybody else to pick up our child and asked her to Modify the Order removing the "no contact" part so my husband and I can freely arrange the visitation schedule and not being so limited in case of an emergency, etc. I also asked to drop the order "not to remove the child from the Jurisdiction" and to keep the "no violence" and the "emergency child support"
However, the Judge denied my request implying that I might be "under pressure" and now I don't know what to do since there are still 8 months to go until it expires. What are our options? Can I file again? Can he file? Is it better to wait until after his hearing about the criminal charges?
What to do in order to be able to reunite my family back together?