North Carolina
For the past two years now my brother has made the life of my family a complete living hell. He is almost 17, and he smokes weed and tobacco, drinks, and just outright lies to my parents. Since he was 14 he has been stealing my car and going out all night, and since getting his own license he has gotten about 3 tickets, and a citation for being caught with marijuana. He steals money from me and my license(since we look alike) to buy cigarettes and according to my mom he even stole and sold her wedding ring. My ipod has been missing now for a month along with a car attachment, but I have no evidence. Whenever he doesn't get his way he gets violent, or mocks my parents, often threatening them. When my parents try to stay strong he threatens to kill himself. He never abides by his punishments and often skips school. He failed 2 classes last year and my parents convinced me to do his online summer courses just so he could pass. He often never comes home on the weekend and when my parents try to discipline him he gets mad and punches holes in our walls-some have been patched but most haven't. A couple of nights ago he even kicked my puppy who has never even looked at him the wrong way. He'll often attack me or my father knowing that since we are both legal adults if we touch him we could end up in prison. Just today he smashed my face into a wall when I tried to stop him from leaving and my chin hasn't stopped bleeding. My parents are constantly at each others throats because of this and it is affecting my school grades. My mom has gotten to the point of desperation where she has started to work two jobs to try and send him to military school. I have been on anti-anxiety medicine now since may when he broke down my door and attacked me when I wouldn't give him my keys. My parents are to ashamed to do anything about it. What actions can I take against my brother-for the sake of my family.
For the past two years now my brother has made the life of my family a complete living hell. He is almost 17, and he smokes weed and tobacco, drinks, and just outright lies to my parents. Since he was 14 he has been stealing my car and going out all night, and since getting his own license he has gotten about 3 tickets, and a citation for being caught with marijuana. He steals money from me and my license(since we look alike) to buy cigarettes and according to my mom he even stole and sold her wedding ring. My ipod has been missing now for a month along with a car attachment, but I have no evidence. Whenever he doesn't get his way he gets violent, or mocks my parents, often threatening them. When my parents try to stay strong he threatens to kill himself. He never abides by his punishments and often skips school. He failed 2 classes last year and my parents convinced me to do his online summer courses just so he could pass. He often never comes home on the weekend and when my parents try to discipline him he gets mad and punches holes in our walls-some have been patched but most haven't. A couple of nights ago he even kicked my puppy who has never even looked at him the wrong way. He'll often attack me or my father knowing that since we are both legal adults if we touch him we could end up in prison. Just today he smashed my face into a wall when I tried to stop him from leaving and my chin hasn't stopped bleeding. My parents are constantly at each others throats because of this and it is affecting my school grades. My mom has gotten to the point of desperation where she has started to work two jobs to try and send him to military school. I have been on anti-anxiety medicine now since may when he broke down my door and attacked me when I wouldn't give him my keys. My parents are to ashamed to do anything about it. What actions can I take against my brother-for the sake of my family.