Parents threatening a relationship

[I'mTheFather]

My mom is not one to call for that, shes very anti-confrontation.

If so many of your friends and family have been threatened with physical violence, but haven't bothered to report those threats to the police, then surely you can understand how that will affect their credibility in court.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

If so many of your friends and family have been threatened with physical violence, but haven't bothered to report those threats to the police, then surely you can understand how that will affect their credibility in court.

I dont know why the other people havent, i simply know why my mom hasn't. And how would it affect credibility? O.O

 

[Zigner]

I dont know why the other people havent, i simply know why my mom hasn't. And how would it affect credibility? O.O

Ask your parent(s) for help if you are served. In the mean-time, start respecting the wishes of the girl's parents.

 

[Silverplum]

If so many of your friends and family have been threatened with physical violence, but haven't bothered to report those threats to the police, then surely you can understand how that will affect their credibility in court.

You'd think so, but no.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

You'd think so, but no.

Despite them reporting it, it doesnt stop the fact that it was done. I have like 15 people that she went to and threatened.

 

[I'mTheFather]

Ask your parent(s) for help if you are served. In the mean-time, start respecting the wishes of the girl's parents.

This is all you can really do.

You cannot go into court and argue against a restraining order by saying the girl's parents started it/did it first/harassed you too. Just doesn't work that way.

 

[I'mTheFather]

You'd think so, but no.

That was funny. Made me laugh out loud.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

This is all you can really do.

You cannot go into court and argue against a restraining order by saying the girl's parents started it/did it first/harassed you too. Just doesn't work that way.

And thats the help i was asking for. Simply saying leave her alone with no reason is no help. That was actually helpful. And you might think im a fool , you probably do, but I am simply trying my best to look for answers on what to do.

 

[TheGeekess]

And thats the help i was asking for. Simply saying leave her alone with no reason is no help. That was actually helpful. And you might think im a fool , you probably do, but I am simply trying my best to look for answers on what to do.

Leave her alone so you don't violate a restraining order/provoke her parents into filing for that order.

It's really not that difficult.

 

[Silverplum]

And thats the help i was asking for. Simply saying leave her alone with no reason is no help. That was actually helpful. And you might think im a fool , you probably do, but I am simply trying my best to look for answers on what to do.

Your parents utterly failed to teach you to obey. That's an enormous pity, and will haunt you for the rest of your pointlessly rebellious life.

 

[Silverplum]

Despite them reporting it, it doesnt stop the fact that it was done. I have like 15 people that she went to and threatened.

That's what you say. Yet none have proof or a desire to protect themselves or to seek justice.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

Your parents utterly failed to teach you to obey. That's an enormous pity, and will haunt you for the rest of your pointlessly rebellious life.

Obey? yes. Comply? no. To simply obey without questioning the order refers back to slaves. I don't rebel or scream and yell when told to do something. I do it and do it quikly to the best of my ability's. By simply wanting to be with my girlfriend I am disobeying? Where is the logic? she is her own person with her own mind she shouldnt be owned like an animal in a zoo and kept under lock and key.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

That's what you say. Yet none have proof or a desire to protect themselves or to seek justice.

They all have already agreed to testify. Most of them just needed a push to come out and file and this was that push

 

[Zigner]

Leave her alone so you don't violate a restraining order/provoke her parents into filing for that order.

It's really not that difficult.

I seem to remember somebody else saying that earlier this afternoon

 

[Silverplum]

Obey? yes. Comply? no. To simply obey without questioning the order refers back to slaves. I don't rebel or scream and yell when told to do something. I do it and do it quikly to the best of my ability's. By simply wanting to be with my girlfriend I am disobeying? Where is the logic? she is her own person with her own mind she shouldnt be owned like an animal in a zoo and kept under lock and key.

I stand by my sage assessment.