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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
This happened in September 2009 and has been in my mind ever since.
In September 2009, I had a run-in with a loose canon at the University where I took my child for speech therapy. I took her to the children's bathroom and whilst we were leaving the bathroom, I happened to dump wet paper towels in a diaper pail as opposed to the trash can in the bathroom. This was witnessed by one of the 'lecturers' who immediately came screaming at me, and chased me down the hall-way and into the seating area, yelling that I no right to dump paper towels in the diaper pail and that I was yelling at my kid etc etc etc! I was terrified and did not know what to think. I just froze.
I then complained to HIS supervisor about his yelling, stalking and intimidation to me and was shocked to get a return email, telling me that I was lying and that I had been talking 'rudely' to my kid which was why he intervened. Oh, and his stalking? He was just 'following us' to 'make sure that the child was OK' and that as 'mandated reporters' it is part of their job to take action in any situation that is 'not in the best interests of the child'.
I wanted to contact an attorney right away and to have him or her write the University a letter but my friends adviced me against it, especially since I was then still a student there (I graduated in December, 2009). I simply emailed her back, denying his allegations although I did have a strongly worded email that I REALLY wanted to send out at the time (but did not because of my friends' urging)
Although close to a year has passed since this incident it still haunts me. This jerk harassed, yelled and stalked me AND capped it all up with an accusation of child abuse which his boss then extended to include CPS when I reported his actions to her.
Is it too late now for me to get an attorney involved? Nothing but an apology would work for me - and as a parent who is ever struggling to do right by my child, this incident hurts, haunts and wounds me to this day.
Please advice. What should I do now? What is the statute of limitation in this case? Is it too late for me to take legal action against this jerk for threatening to file a false report? (I still have the boss' email - and she cc-ed a whole bunch of people on it, including this jerk, the dean, the head of the speech communications department etc etc etc).
I just cannot let go and move on especially since I was the victim and was further victimized by these people. Thanks.
This happened in September 2009 and has been in my mind ever since.
In September 2009, I had a run-in with a loose canon at the University where I took my child for speech therapy. I took her to the children's bathroom and whilst we were leaving the bathroom, I happened to dump wet paper towels in a diaper pail as opposed to the trash can in the bathroom. This was witnessed by one of the 'lecturers' who immediately came screaming at me, and chased me down the hall-way and into the seating area, yelling that I no right to dump paper towels in the diaper pail and that I was yelling at my kid etc etc etc! I was terrified and did not know what to think. I just froze.
I then complained to HIS supervisor about his yelling, stalking and intimidation to me and was shocked to get a return email, telling me that I was lying and that I had been talking 'rudely' to my kid which was why he intervened. Oh, and his stalking? He was just 'following us' to 'make sure that the child was OK' and that as 'mandated reporters' it is part of their job to take action in any situation that is 'not in the best interests of the child'.
I wanted to contact an attorney right away and to have him or her write the University a letter but my friends adviced me against it, especially since I was then still a student there (I graduated in December, 2009). I simply emailed her back, denying his allegations although I did have a strongly worded email that I REALLY wanted to send out at the time (but did not because of my friends' urging)
Although close to a year has passed since this incident it still haunts me. This jerk harassed, yelled and stalked me AND capped it all up with an accusation of child abuse which his boss then extended to include CPS when I reported his actions to her.
Is it too late now for me to get an attorney involved? Nothing but an apology would work for me - and as a parent who is ever struggling to do right by my child, this incident hurts, haunts and wounds me to this day.
Please advice. What should I do now? What is the statute of limitation in this case? Is it too late for me to take legal action against this jerk for threatening to file a false report? (I still have the boss' email - and she cc-ed a whole bunch of people on it, including this jerk, the dean, the head of the speech communications department etc etc etc).
I just cannot let go and move on especially since I was the victim and was further victimized by these people. Thanks.