What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
Husband's ex-wife has harrassed me for years-letters in mail, even trying to partially blame me for divorce problems (I met him after divorce), at one time even she came at me in a public arena. We moved out of the area and thought things subsided. At custody pickups-I stayed out of visual and physical range and ensured my children stayed hidden. I have had no contact with her, when custody pickups occured-had police at our house several times due to her erratic behavior, never picked up phone if rang with her number on caller id-just truly tried to steer clear from her. I was served today with a temp. restraining order-in a court over 4 hours away. She's revisiting unfounded allegations made by her during their custody battle over 8 years ago- and is claiming I'm still sending letters to her. I am a stay at home mom who is actively involved in my kid's school and the community-I don't even think about her. I know I need to go to court on that day-but what do I say/do? I don't have copies of any of these 'letters' and in the order she added her kid, and my husband shares custody-what does that mean for him? Will the courts tell him he cant have custody of his son? Or me to leave my house? I'm still in shock by this and any assistance would be truly appreciated
Husband's ex-wife has harrassed me for years-letters in mail, even trying to partially blame me for divorce problems (I met him after divorce), at one time even she came at me in a public arena. We moved out of the area and thought things subsided. At custody pickups-I stayed out of visual and physical range and ensured my children stayed hidden. I have had no contact with her, when custody pickups occured-had police at our house several times due to her erratic behavior, never picked up phone if rang with her number on caller id-just truly tried to steer clear from her. I was served today with a temp. restraining order-in a court over 4 hours away. She's revisiting unfounded allegations made by her during their custody battle over 8 years ago- and is claiming I'm still sending letters to her. I am a stay at home mom who is actively involved in my kid's school and the community-I don't even think about her. I know I need to go to court on that day-but what do I say/do? I don't have copies of any of these 'letters' and in the order she added her kid, and my husband shares custody-what does that mean for him? Will the courts tell him he cant have custody of his son? Or me to leave my house? I'm still in shock by this and any assistance would be truly appreciated