irishgurley
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
My husband and I were picking up his son from the sons mother on october 1st. In doing so the mother had punched me in the face while I was buckled in my seat barley facing her. I went to the police because it was right behind the pickup area and I filed a report. This happened on a friday and on the following monday she went to family court and had an emergency order of protection for their son against me saying that I made it all up and she brought up all this stuff that wasn't true at all. So I am not allowed to be around my husband and his son until further notice.
This is how the situation started.
My husband and I were trying to buckle his son in his car seat, he is four years old. He started screaming for his mother, he does this everytime. She comes over and instead of consoling her son she starts talking to him and saying that we are terriable people and that we are very bad. I asked him to close the door and walk away to let his son cool down. He son started to try and get out of the car, that is when my husband came back and we tried again, he asked the mother to leave because she wasn't doing anything to help him she was making it worst and the child just kept screaming lounder and louder and she is standing outside our car door screaming to him that we are awful people that not to listen to us to remember what she tells him and only listen to her and not to us. We finally get him buckled and while we were doing it she started to curse at me in front of their son and my daughter. I told her angerly to go away I was not rude and did not swear. She then opens my door and is trying to pull me out of the car when her baby sitter had to pull her out while the baby sitter was holding her daughter. Then she gets her off of me and all of a sudden I hear the back driver seat door open and its her trespassing in my car. She takes my daughter out of the car and is sitting there climbing all over our things telling him not to listen and that we are awful. I told her three times to get out of the car and so did my husband and on the third time she punches me right in the face in front of her son and the she proceds to get out of the car. I was in the passenger seat of the car and their son was in his car seat behind me. I was buckled in and wasn't showing any force towords her. I was barley facing her.
This is what I told the police and so did my husband. That arrested her but it was only aggravated harassment because I did not have a bruise or bleeding when I went to the station but I did have a huge red mark on my left cornor of my forhead that when they measured was five inces and she broke my glasses. It did bruise and a bump later that night and I went back to the station where they took it down.
She went to family court stating that I was holding her from her child and that if she did hit me it was in self-defence. She said that I have mental helth problems and that I am an alcoholic and that I abuse everyone. She brought these claims up before three years ago, which after a long time where all proven to be lies.She also told the court that I told the son that his mother was going to jail, which neither of us said anything she said that when she picked him up he was very upset and crying and that he doesn't like me. That isn't true either we have it on tape. He was very happy because we went to a fair and a zoo and the son was tell his mother all about it. She has a court date for hiting me which she had adjourned because it was before the family court case.
I am wondering that what will happen to her when my husband proves that she has lied about that. That she is wasting the courts time. She hit me right in front of her son. She was trespassing in my car, not my husbands. And she is in violation of their order. He has a huge file of every allegation she has made and that everyone has been a lie. I am not allowed to be at my house to sleep at my house two to four nights a week now because that is when he has his son. I have to stay at a hotel. I have to spend all this extra gas. The reason why my daughter and I were there when he was picking his son up was because we were going away for the weekend. This is the third time we have had to go to the police, two other times she took their son when it was his time. Could he win custody of his son. Four days after this she put on her face book (she is 31) that she likes to hurt people who sit in the front passenger seat and can get away with it. They are both pharmacist. So one would think that could be adult like. She tells the son not to listen to us and say these terrible things about me his sister and his father. The son tells me that he is going to kill me because "mommy says that its okay beacuse your bad". What would it take for the judge to see that she is not a good person. Can I sue her anything, for my hotel bills or my extra expensices that I have to undertake now. I pay for my house and now I can't stay there. What can he do. thanks
My husband and I were picking up his son from the sons mother on october 1st. In doing so the mother had punched me in the face while I was buckled in my seat barley facing her. I went to the police because it was right behind the pickup area and I filed a report. This happened on a friday and on the following monday she went to family court and had an emergency order of protection for their son against me saying that I made it all up and she brought up all this stuff that wasn't true at all. So I am not allowed to be around my husband and his son until further notice.
This is how the situation started.
My husband and I were trying to buckle his son in his car seat, he is four years old. He started screaming for his mother, he does this everytime. She comes over and instead of consoling her son she starts talking to him and saying that we are terriable people and that we are very bad. I asked him to close the door and walk away to let his son cool down. He son started to try and get out of the car, that is when my husband came back and we tried again, he asked the mother to leave because she wasn't doing anything to help him she was making it worst and the child just kept screaming lounder and louder and she is standing outside our car door screaming to him that we are awful people that not to listen to us to remember what she tells him and only listen to her and not to us. We finally get him buckled and while we were doing it she started to curse at me in front of their son and my daughter. I told her angerly to go away I was not rude and did not swear. She then opens my door and is trying to pull me out of the car when her baby sitter had to pull her out while the baby sitter was holding her daughter. Then she gets her off of me and all of a sudden I hear the back driver seat door open and its her trespassing in my car. She takes my daughter out of the car and is sitting there climbing all over our things telling him not to listen and that we are awful. I told her three times to get out of the car and so did my husband and on the third time she punches me right in the face in front of her son and the she proceds to get out of the car. I was in the passenger seat of the car and their son was in his car seat behind me. I was buckled in and wasn't showing any force towords her. I was barley facing her.
This is what I told the police and so did my husband. That arrested her but it was only aggravated harassment because I did not have a bruise or bleeding when I went to the station but I did have a huge red mark on my left cornor of my forhead that when they measured was five inces and she broke my glasses. It did bruise and a bump later that night and I went back to the station where they took it down.
She went to family court stating that I was holding her from her child and that if she did hit me it was in self-defence. She said that I have mental helth problems and that I am an alcoholic and that I abuse everyone. She brought these claims up before three years ago, which after a long time where all proven to be lies.She also told the court that I told the son that his mother was going to jail, which neither of us said anything she said that when she picked him up he was very upset and crying and that he doesn't like me. That isn't true either we have it on tape. He was very happy because we went to a fair and a zoo and the son was tell his mother all about it. She has a court date for hiting me which she had adjourned because it was before the family court case.
I am wondering that what will happen to her when my husband proves that she has lied about that. That she is wasting the courts time. She hit me right in front of her son. She was trespassing in my car, not my husbands. And she is in violation of their order. He has a huge file of every allegation she has made and that everyone has been a lie. I am not allowed to be at my house to sleep at my house two to four nights a week now because that is when he has his son. I have to stay at a hotel. I have to spend all this extra gas. The reason why my daughter and I were there when he was picking his son up was because we were going away for the weekend. This is the third time we have had to go to the police, two other times she took their son when it was his time. Could he win custody of his son. Four days after this she put on her face book (she is 31) that she likes to hurt people who sit in the front passenger seat and can get away with it. They are both pharmacist. So one would think that could be adult like. She tells the son not to listen to us and say these terrible things about me his sister and his father. The son tells me that he is going to kill me because "mommy says that its okay beacuse your bad". What would it take for the judge to see that she is not a good person. Can I sue her anything, for my hotel bills or my extra expensices that I have to undertake now. I pay for my house and now I can't stay there. What can he do. thanks
