legalhelpME
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maine
To start off i am the DEFENDANT in a protection from abuse case, the order was served onto me by law enforcement only last night, me and my ex just broke it off, and it ended badly (When i say badly i dont mean abusively)
Here is what i am asking straight out
in her temporary request for an order/summons she makes several statements
I am planning on attending the final hearing to combat these statements, no i dont want to get back together with her EVER again, but i also dont want this on my record.
I plan on collecting affidavits (is that the proper form) from people who know me that i am a stable safe person that is not a threat to anyone, she makes several statements that i am unstable, a threat to her and to children.
I will be honest and say i am being treated for mental illness, with the OPERATIVE word as treated, i also plan on getting a statement from my doctor as to my stability.
I dont plan on just letting this order go through lying down, she says i stalked her in the past, not true, she says i had sex with her without permission, well ill be honest this is a grey area, we had been in bed a few times when she was not interested, but she ended up letting me have sex with her, when asked later she stated "i knew you wanted it so i just let you"
As i said before i am curious as to what form i really need to be using and whats the best way to defend myself, i am not hiring a lawyer for this, i will present my case and according to state law she has the burden of proof at trial
if anyone can help me sort some of this out i would be very grateful!
COnfused and hurt in ME
To start off i am the DEFENDANT in a protection from abuse case, the order was served onto me by law enforcement only last night, me and my ex just broke it off, and it ended badly (When i say badly i dont mean abusively)
Here is what i am asking straight out
in her temporary request for an order/summons she makes several statements
I am planning on attending the final hearing to combat these statements, no i dont want to get back together with her EVER again, but i also dont want this on my record.
I plan on collecting affidavits (is that the proper form) from people who know me that i am a stable safe person that is not a threat to anyone, she makes several statements that i am unstable, a threat to her and to children.
I will be honest and say i am being treated for mental illness, with the OPERATIVE word as treated, i also plan on getting a statement from my doctor as to my stability.
I dont plan on just letting this order go through lying down, she says i stalked her in the past, not true, she says i had sex with her without permission, well ill be honest this is a grey area, we had been in bed a few times when she was not interested, but she ended up letting me have sex with her, when asked later she stated "i knew you wanted it so i just let you"
As i said before i am curious as to what form i really need to be using and whats the best way to defend myself, i am not hiring a lawyer for this, i will present my case and according to state law she has the burden of proof at trial
if anyone can help me sort some of this out i would be very grateful!
COnfused and hurt in ME