What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CO, MO
Ive been dating my now fiance for 5 years. He hasnt been with his ex wife for 7 years, however she quite obviously suffers from untreated mental/emotional issues. I was told to just ignore her, which I try to do. But even after 5 years of attempting the best I can to ignore, I get constant internet harrassement. Its especially annoying because shes 35 yrs old with 4 kids (not all my fiances) and Im 26
Last year I called the cops in her state after she repeatedly wrote things about "beating my *** and me being surprised what she could get away with on private property", when we were going to pick up my fiances kids to go on vacation....They went and wrote her a warning for harrassement as I wasnt the first person to call the cops on her for this.
It has continued off and on, now we had to block all 3 of her numbers on our phones because she was text harrassing my fiance like you wouldnt believe and then turned to my phone when we blocked her on his.
She seems to go through periods of leaving us alone and then starting again like shes doing now....Her and her boyfriend are coming to my state for something and shes now making comments 1 right after another saying stuff like, "Ill make you back up your ****" "wow 95 cents to find out a recent address" "wonder if its worth going through (my town) on the way to where they are going" My town is 3,000 people and 6 hours away from where they are going. She also knows she doesnt have a reason to come to my home town as she wont have the kids and my fiance is far away working. I wouldnt put it past her to come to my town just to stalk me and now Im worried shes gonna do something violent and stupid
And now saying its funny my grandmas dead (she raised me) and my parents dont love me.....
I have proof of everything she says, screen shots, texts, Im sure I could get something from the cops that I talked to last year....I also have proof I say very little to her....this time it was brought on I think because she learned we are getting married soon
Would this warrant some sort of restraining order or anything? And if it does could I get it in my state of CO and not hers of MO?? I know she doesnt live near me but in our situation I have to often go with my fiance to get the kids and I mainly dont want her to do something stupid and get away with it.
Im not trying to be petty, she says lots of other things that are just catty but its when she starts threatening to come somewhere she doesnt need to be and threatening violence that bothers me because I know shes trying to intimidate me and it kinda works.....
I know its driven by jealously ect but I was hoping it would end now 5 years later, I just honestly want our lives to be peaceful without all the threats