State is PA
My fiancee filed a PFA against with intoxicated and then suprisigly filed for the temporary the next day. We have a hearing the 25th. Now granted I am in the wrong, I'm not denying that i handled the situation poorly that night and yesterday i got set up with a conselour. BUT my local law efforcement knows us and knows her. This isnt anything new and I have learned to record what i can of our conflicts. I showed my local police the video and they are encouraging me to show the judge but i dont want to make this any worse than it already is. The report on the PFA is an extreme exaggeration, i cant say i have never slapped, shoved or pushed her off of me, but i have NEVER struck her with a closed fist or enough force to ever leave any type of markings on her. And we have never gotten into an altercation when she was sober. She has also has a perscription pill and alcohol abuse problem. We have 3 small children, but they were not home at the night of this occurence
Video, the video shows her harrasing and threatening me while i try and seclude myself from her in a bedroom, the judge will see full video where she goes into saying she has FBI friends after she says shes going to kill me. Should i show judge video or sit quietly and hope this blows over so i can go home again?
I also have text and phone calls from her begging me to come home and when i refuse because, well its the law, she tries to convince me that its a leiniant PFA and doesnt mean anything.
My fiancee filed a PFA against with intoxicated and then suprisigly filed for the temporary the next day. We have a hearing the 25th. Now granted I am in the wrong, I'm not denying that i handled the situation poorly that night and yesterday i got set up with a conselour. BUT my local law efforcement knows us and knows her. This isnt anything new and I have learned to record what i can of our conflicts. I showed my local police the video and they are encouraging me to show the judge but i dont want to make this any worse than it already is. The report on the PFA is an extreme exaggeration, i cant say i have never slapped, shoved or pushed her off of me, but i have NEVER struck her with a closed fist or enough force to ever leave any type of markings on her. And we have never gotten into an altercation when she was sober. She has also has a perscription pill and alcohol abuse problem. We have 3 small children, but they were not home at the night of this occurence
Video, the video shows her harrasing and threatening me while i try and seclude myself from her in a bedroom, the judge will see full video where she goes into saying she has FBI friends after she says shes going to kill me. Should i show judge video or sit quietly and hope this blows over so i can go home again?
I also have text and phone calls from her begging me to come home and when i refuse because, well its the law, she tries to convince me that its a leiniant PFA and doesnt mean anything.
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