Served restrain order with lies,what can i do?

[daddyof2]

What is the name of your state? Florida
I need some advise, Im desperate, can not come close to the house, my kids, my kids school,mywife and can not have any contact with them. My kids are my life and I'm going desperate without seen them.
My wife an I have been having a lots heated arguments for the past weeks since she find out I cheated with another woman a year ago. She has been so bitter and upset since she find out nd I can not blame her. I told her I want things to work out and offered to go to counseling ,etc. One morning i had to drive her to work (becasue she backed her car with the driver passenger side door open in the garage (one of my sons was in the car) and damage the car so bad that it needs a new door.) so that morning while I was driving her we got into a heated argument and I try to avoid all her name calling and insults. We got the point that she was so upset she grabbed the hot coffe mug I had in the cupholder and attemtep to spill it over my face while driving, I quickly grabbed her hand and pushed it over her head (we both got covered with coffee) and trying to bring the car to a stop with cars around me. a few words exchanged and i turned around to go back home and she insited to let her get off, at that point we were in the highway.I told her she was crazy of what she did and why not better crashing into upcoming traffic (bad me for saying that). So on the next exit I stpped and she got off the car. I went home and shortly after she showed up and came to my face screaming, insulting and so close she invaded my space. She pressed her face to my while screaming, i turned my head and she bitted my face. I walked away and she left with some belongings. I filed a police report of the incident. The next day she got a call from the cops requesting information of the report I made, she did not like it. After that she disspaeared and only call once saying to pick up the kids becasue she was going to be late. I picked up the kids, had dinner, bought her flowers witha I love you ballon,picked up the house and had dinner with my boys waiting for mommy. Then she called me saying to have the kids in a safe place because i neede to leave the house and hanged up. Shorthly thereafter she showed up with 3 cops and a restraiing order. Couldn't say anything to her anymore, grabbed some stuff in front of my kids and left. I read the alligations and she only mentiones I held her in the car, I threatened her to kill us by crashing my car with upcoming traffic and that i was going to get a gun. (i dont own nor like guns). Also she mentioned a physical interaction we had a few months ago when i had to control her by grabbing her by the arms because she was attacking me but she only mentioned I grabbed by the arms against the wall and i twisted her arm. That she is afraid I will do something next. SO the court gave her a temporary restrain order.
PLEASE dont know what to do, I'm getting super sad and depress not being able to see, talk or have anything with my kids. The court date is 14 days from now and can not wait. my kids are my life and her is too. I want things to work out and willing to forgive becasue i was the one that brought her anger.
I was thinking to go to the court house monday first thing and:
1- file a restraing order against her? not sure what this will do, maybe the kids with my parents
2-contest the restrain order with a judge based on the improper use of allegations?
3- ask the judge to dissolve the restrain order?
I need some guidance, and I wish i could talk to her to tell her to dissolve the restrain order but i'm not allowed based on the instructions of the order and definately dont want to go to jail for talking to her. what to do, please help this desperate dad :-(

[InsuranceLadyAZ]

Originally Posted by daddyof2

What is the name of your state? Florida
I need some advise, Im desperate, can not come close to the house, my kids, my kids school,mywife and can not have any contact with them. My kids are my life and I'm going desperate without seen them.
My wife an I have been having a lots heated arguments for the past weeks since she find out I cheated with another woman a year ago. She has been so bitter and upset since she find out nd I can not blame her. I told her I want things to work out and offered to go to counseling ,etc. One morning i had to drive her to work (becasue she backed her car with the driver passenger side door open in the garage (one of my sons was in the car) and damage the car so bad that it needs a new door.) so that morning while I was driving her we got into a heated argument and I try to avoid all her name calling and insults. We got the point that she was so upset she grabbed the hot coffe mug I had in the cupholder and attemtep to spill it over my face while driving, I quickly grabbed her hand and pushed it over her head (we both got covered with coffee) and trying to bring the car to a stop with cars around me. a few words exchanged and i turned around to go back home and she insited to let her get off, at that point we were in the highway.I told her she was crazy of what she did and why not better crashing into upcoming traffic (bad me for saying that). So on the next exit I stpped and she got off the car. I went home and shortly after she showed up and came to my face screaming, insulting and so close she invaded my space. She pressed her face to my while screaming, i turned my head and she bitted my face. I walked away and she left with some belongings. I filed a police report of the incident. The next day she got a call from the cops requesting information of the report I made, she did not like it. After that she disspaeared and only call once saying to pick up the kids becasue she was going to be late. I picked up the kids, had dinner, bought her flowers witha I love you ballon,picked up the house and had dinner with my boys waiting for mommy. Then she called me saying to have the kids in a safe place because i neede to leave the house and hanged up. Shorthly thereafter she showed up with 3 cops and a restraiing order. Couldn't say anything to her anymore, grabbed some stuff in front of my kids and left. I read the alligations and she only mentiones I held her in the car, I threatened her to kill us by crashing my car with upcoming traffic and that i was going to get a gun. (i dont own nor like guns). Also she mentioned a physical interaction we had a few months ago when i had to control her by grabbing her by the arms because she was attacking me but she only mentioned I grabbed by the arms against the wall and i twisted her arm. That she is afraid I will do something next. SO the court gave her a temporary restrain order.
PLEASE dont know what to do, I'm getting super sad and depress not being able to see, talk or have anything with my kids. The court date is 14 days from now and can not wait. my kids are my life and her is too. I want things to work out and willing to forgive becasue i was the one that brought her anger.
I was thinking to go to the court house monday first thing and:
1- file a restraing order against her? not sure what this will do, maybe the kids with my parents
2-contest the restrain order with a judge based on the improper use of allegations?
3- ask the judge to dissolve the restrain order?
I need some guidance, and I wish i could talk to her to tell her to dissolve the restrain order but i'm not allowed based on the instructions of the order and definately dont want to go to jail for talking to her. what to do, please help this desperate dad :-(

I think you might get better responses (or at least some) if you'd break this long paragraph in shorter, more concise paragraphs that are easier to read. I tried to get through your post and flat-out gave up.