theirishavenger
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Colorado
Ok, here's the deal. From 1981-1988 I was sexually abused by my stepfather. Went to the cops in '88 (small town) who according to my mother did not believe my story and so threw the report in the trash basically. I was still a minor when I went to the police. Not knowing where to turn, we left it hanging there. My sister and brother were also victimized in the same manner.
Now I want to sue as I've learned that the criminal statute of limitations may've run out. My brother, sister, and mother most likely will not agree to participate in any legal proceedings as they wish to leave it lie. I do not wish to leave it lie, knowing that this person is most likely victimizing other kids. In fact, in his previous marriage there are two boys who he may have victimized- I'm almost sure of it. Here are my questions:
1.) What kind of lawyer do I need to look for?
2.) How much should I expect to spend, to see a legal action to the end? The perpetrator has almost no assets. He's not rich.
3.) What are the odds of winning given I probably won't get the rest of the family to help testify and corroborate each others' stories?
4.) Colorado currently has legislation underway regarding a change to sexual harassment laws. How will this affect me?
Thank you all very much for your help.
Chris
Ok, here's the deal. From 1981-1988 I was sexually abused by my stepfather. Went to the cops in '88 (small town) who according to my mother did not believe my story and so threw the report in the trash basically. I was still a minor when I went to the police. Not knowing where to turn, we left it hanging there. My sister and brother were also victimized in the same manner.
Now I want to sue as I've learned that the criminal statute of limitations may've run out. My brother, sister, and mother most likely will not agree to participate in any legal proceedings as they wish to leave it lie. I do not wish to leave it lie, knowing that this person is most likely victimizing other kids. In fact, in his previous marriage there are two boys who he may have victimized- I'm almost sure of it. Here are my questions:
1.) What kind of lawyer do I need to look for?
2.) How much should I expect to spend, to see a legal action to the end? The perpetrator has almost no assets. He's not rich.
3.) What are the odds of winning given I probably won't get the rest of the family to help testify and corroborate each others' stories?
4.) Colorado currently has legislation underway regarding a change to sexual harassment laws. How will this affect me?
Thank you all very much for your help.
Chris