I HATE LIARS! So how about the truth?
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Eviction notice? adult physical abuse. legal advice.?
okay so, my friend who is currently 18 years old,
You or a friend?
lives in honolulu, hawaii, got a signed paper from his parents with both his parents signatures on it. giving little over, or exactly two weeks to move out or court actions will be 'initiated' against him.
So at this point he -- or you-- is down to a week since the long version was posted 6 days ago.
So, his parents own three apartments, and have dozens of thousands on this checkbook, and are trying to throw him out one month after his birthday. Everything seem legal so far?
They may need to give more notice depending on HI law.
lets keep going, Now he and his parents are from ukraine, and are citizens of united states of america. His dad, fully believes that the best discipline and method of getting abuse, is brutal beatings. ever since the boy can remember, he has been getting brutal beatings, some more reasonable then others, others are not reasonable at all.
Brutal beatings which are reasonable at times? So how many bones were broken since he was seven? How many scars does he have from the reasonable brutal beatings? What about the not reasonable brutal beatings?
One time his dad beat up and pressed his thumb on the boy's skull to make his brain hurt because the depressed child had this look that the father didn't like, the look was caused by deep depression and was the only look the kid had for over two years, brutal inhumane beating for having a psychical appearance.
So his face was frozen in a "depressed look" -- the "only look the kid had for two years -- and NO ONE ELSE NOTICED? Was he locked in a closet for his childhood?
this specific accident happened on us soil, where the now young man is being evicted of now. all of his teenage his parents would yell, beat, turn off electricity, turn off internet.
Believe it or not, internet is NOT a necessity.
Make up excuses like, trying to beat the gaming addiction out of him.
So he has a gaming addiction.
The guy's mother never had a job, had a collage degree. but has been thoughly brainwashed by his father. dozens of years of his yelling and opinions rubbed off on her, and she has tried to beat the boy up on us soil also, she used a scuba diving flipper. didn't leave scars, but the same flipper was used by his father to cause the skin on the guy's back to break and bleed, leaving scars for a year. The boy loves his parents, and always debated and compromised with them, but they never budged.
Scars for a year? Really? Just for a year? Liar.
so here is the situation. the parents brutally assaulted the kid since he was 7 years old. when he was 10-11 they all moved to new york, still brutally beating him, when he was 12-13 they moved to hawaii. and from when he was 13 to 17 they still beat him, from 17 to 18 they financially neglected him, and emotionally abused him, also one time spit in his face twice.
How brutally?
The parents are filthy rich, with over 700+ thousand dollars (property + bank accounts) and they promised that they would spend the entire amount on their retirement. they have been too lazy and neglectful to work, his dad hasn't had a job for over 10 years. they spend a very minimum amount of money, only buying food that is on sale. and now they want to kick him out, one month after his birthday, and are willing to take it to court.
Filthy rich is not having 700k in the bank and property. They are allowed to spend the entire amount on their retirement. Your friend -- or you -- sounds spoiled, entitled and greedy.
additionally, they drove their child to the point of suicide dozens of times, but he was just barely too strong. maybe that was their goal. nothing makes sense and this is inexcusable and inexcusable
. I agree. Nothing makes sense that you are stating. The child was too strong to attempt suicide?
they also turned off the electricity at night to the point where no lights in the apartment would work. after a while he researched that its neglect and told them thats its illigal, they have provided me with flash lights but never gave me battery replacements because batteries are too 'expensive' also his parents never paid for his health insurance ever in his life. one time he had health insurance but it was from the government.
Now your friend is having this issue but his parents provided YOU with flash lights but not batteries and his parents didn't have health insurance for him?
I hate liars.
so what do you do? where do you go? how does he survive.
He/you moves out and gets psychiatric help.
also when his dad was ranting about discipline. he was describing how he dragged his older sister by her hair all over the floor, and how much good it did for her that he did so.
he told his mom about what his dad told him about his sister, and the mom just yelled about him being insubordinate and how he should move out.
what kind of maniac does this to his children? and to his young daughter? ive never his a girl all my life.
His daughter? Your sister? His sister?
back to my friend? what now?
He/you tell the truth.
what should he do? his parents always got in his away and he could never make money, so he made only 2,000 savings. thats a month worth of expenses in honolulu, the now, adult will be homeless in less then 4 weeks,
He couldn't make money but he has $2k in savings as an 18 year old> Well he has you as a friend so maybe he should move in with you and your family. Sounds like a plan.
by hawaii law, what chance does he have in court against them? and could he win and be compensated for his life long torture?
Nope. He wasn't abused. He was disciplined. He has you to lie for him and take it for him per your post. See how confusing this gets? He also should learn how to tell the truth.
