I am married man from Minnesota living with my wife happily. I have back pain. I visited chiropractic 3 times 6 months ago. In my last family doctor visit, my doctor recommended me to get massage and see if that ease my back pain. I looked on gorupon for a good deal and I found a deal for deep tissue massage at the beginning of this December. I contacted the provider for their schedule and possible appointment and left voice message.
The female provider replied via text message their website address for schedule and appointment. I called on phone again for help since I was not able to figure out how to look at schedule and process for appointment in their website. I was directed via phone call and text message.
I have never done body massage in my life and I am shy guy. I have seen massage being done in mall or in other parlor where other customers could see that. Therefore, I asked the provider if the massage is private. She asked me what do I meant. I said a private massage and said if she knows what I meant. She asked me if I meant to come over my home and if it is a home massage and if I looking for more than a massage. I said Yes for home massage, but I didn't know she could do that and did not get what she meant when she said more than a massage. I thought we were having misunderstanding while texting. She said No and asked me to return my coupon to groupon. I was little confused as why she said so. I said Ok and sure.
Further, I went and asked her if she know anyone who would do such massage. She said No. And I replied OK. Thank you.
I didn't know my words could create any issue until on same week Saturday, when I received a call from Police Officer. The Officer said that there was a complaint from massage provider against my telephone number and he wanted to confirm with me if I contacted the female person over phone and text. I said Yes to officer and explained in detail the purpose for a call and text messages. I also explained that there may have been misunderstanding between us and I am willing to say sorry to her. But the Officer told me not to contact the provider in future and return my coupon. I said OK. The Office said this is not criminal crime and they are not looking to prosecute me at this time. He did take my personal information like Fullname, address, DOB and told me that they will put that information in their system. For the record, I have never been contacted by any police office in my 30 years life. This is the first time I was contacted for a such complaint.
Now, I don't know what are possible issue that could come up in future for me. I don't know what type of complaint was that and I don't know how long that complaint will stay in my record. Please advice and suggest me to understand this complaint better and possible outcome in future.
Thanks, all
Tom
The female provider replied via text message their website address for schedule and appointment. I called on phone again for help since I was not able to figure out how to look at schedule and process for appointment in their website. I was directed via phone call and text message.
I have never done body massage in my life and I am shy guy. I have seen massage being done in mall or in other parlor where other customers could see that. Therefore, I asked the provider if the massage is private. She asked me what do I meant. I said a private massage and said if she knows what I meant. She asked me if I meant to come over my home and if it is a home massage and if I looking for more than a massage. I said Yes for home massage, but I didn't know she could do that and did not get what she meant when she said more than a massage. I thought we were having misunderstanding while texting. She said No and asked me to return my coupon to groupon. I was little confused as why she said so. I said Ok and sure.
Further, I went and asked her if she know anyone who would do such massage. She said No. And I replied OK. Thank you.
I didn't know my words could create any issue until on same week Saturday, when I received a call from Police Officer. The Officer said that there was a complaint from massage provider against my telephone number and he wanted to confirm with me if I contacted the female person over phone and text. I said Yes to officer and explained in detail the purpose for a call and text messages. I also explained that there may have been misunderstanding between us and I am willing to say sorry to her. But the Officer told me not to contact the provider in future and return my coupon. I said OK. The Office said this is not criminal crime and they are not looking to prosecute me at this time. He did take my personal information like Fullname, address, DOB and told me that they will put that information in their system. For the record, I have never been contacted by any police office in my 30 years life. This is the first time I was contacted for a such complaint.
Now, I don't know what are possible issue that could come up in future for me. I don't know what type of complaint was that and I don't know how long that complaint will stay in my record. Please advice and suggest me to understand this complaint better and possible outcome in future.
Thanks, all
Tom
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