Justasking1234
Junior Member
Last night my ex posted something on instagram about me. I nicely, kindly, texted him please can you not do that. He went off and threatened me. He called me every name in the book and then said that I shouldn't test him bc I don't know what him or his "people" are capable of when it comes to me and my fiance and that he'll have us touched.... And then he added, he doesn't care if my father is a cop, it's a war on cops now anyways." and don't F with him. Now this is not the reaction I expected bc we'd been on decent terms I just asked him not to talk badly about me online. I honestly expected him to just say it wasn't about me or something....anyways. I wasn't really worried about his threat. This morning I come into work and a guy comes in shady as hell and says he's there for pest services. I call the office manager and she has no recollection of calling anyone. Now this guy kept his back to me the whole time and kept checking his phone as he waited for the manager to call the landlord. Finally they let him in. He put 1 ant trap down and left. This guy looked exactly like someone my ex would be dealing with. It's to the point I'm having my fiance pick me up from work bc I'm scared to go outside. This could just be a coincidence but I am not about to take chances. I don't want to go to the police because things really could backfire on me. I mean I won't go to jail but things I don't need getting out could. Also I know that if I go to the police and he's arrested (in NJ threatening is illegal) he will send someone for us. How should I handle this situation. Should I just not talk to my ex anymore and just be careful for a couple weeks since he wasn't the one to originally contact me and I don't think he will again. Or should I take this more seriously?
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