gonnabefree
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What is the name of your state? Ohio
how much weight if any does emotional, verbal, and mental abuse carry in Ohio? STBX claims he did not verbally abuse me ever because for it to be verbal abuse he would have to stand over me with a hammer and threaten to kill me, this his says came from the prosecuting attorney.
He has called me a b*****, a stupe, hollers at the way I clean house(never good enough) says all I do is sit on my fat a**.
He is an over the road trucker and is gone all week all responsibilities with children are mine-such as getting them to practices, school etc.
He told 13 year old son back in may to get his f****** a** face in the house and he never wanted to see his f****** a** face outside again. This was all because the 13 yr old wasn't trimming the grass to suit him( 13 yr old had never trimmed before)
This was just one of his out breaks, always calling names when things don't go his way.
After the above incident he threw 2 bikes out of the garage and said get these out of MY garage, i went to put them in our other garage and he said I don't want them in there, so now the bikes are out in the treehouse
I have written down in a journal since Sept of 2000 when he goes on his rampages.
We are in the process of divorce, he is still residing here but has been on good behavior pretty much since sept. only one time has he gotten angry with the children and that was after our pre-trial .
The night before it he told the children that I wouldn't be fit to be around if I lost the next day-that is if I got to come home because I was probably going to jail for lying to the court. I wrote it down and gave it to my attorney and she showed it to his and I believe his attorney must have chewed him our about it. He hollered at the children when he got home and said do you have to tell your mommy everything. Oh yeah he didn't have to show at pre-trial because he was a trucker and on the road-funny he was home the night before and then was home the day of pre-trial at 3:40. Pre-trial was at 9:30 am.
I guess my question is how much weight does the verbal abuse tome and the children carry in a divorce proceeding and his visitation( he attorney stated at pre-trial he does not want custody)
Thanks for your replies
how much weight if any does emotional, verbal, and mental abuse carry in Ohio? STBX claims he did not verbally abuse me ever because for it to be verbal abuse he would have to stand over me with a hammer and threaten to kill me, this his says came from the prosecuting attorney.
He has called me a b*****, a stupe, hollers at the way I clean house(never good enough) says all I do is sit on my fat a**.
He is an over the road trucker and is gone all week all responsibilities with children are mine-such as getting them to practices, school etc.
He told 13 year old son back in may to get his f****** a** face in the house and he never wanted to see his f****** a** face outside again. This was all because the 13 yr old wasn't trimming the grass to suit him( 13 yr old had never trimmed before)
This was just one of his out breaks, always calling names when things don't go his way.
After the above incident he threw 2 bikes out of the garage and said get these out of MY garage, i went to put them in our other garage and he said I don't want them in there, so now the bikes are out in the treehouse
I have written down in a journal since Sept of 2000 when he goes on his rampages.
We are in the process of divorce, he is still residing here but has been on good behavior pretty much since sept. only one time has he gotten angry with the children and that was after our pre-trial .
The night before it he told the children that I wouldn't be fit to be around if I lost the next day-that is if I got to come home because I was probably going to jail for lying to the court. I wrote it down and gave it to my attorney and she showed it to his and I believe his attorney must have chewed him our about it. He hollered at the children when he got home and said do you have to tell your mommy everything. Oh yeah he didn't have to show at pre-trial because he was a trucker and on the road-funny he was home the night before and then was home the day of pre-trial at 3:40. Pre-trial was at 9:30 am.
I guess my question is how much weight does the verbal abuse tome and the children carry in a divorce proceeding and his visitation( he attorney stated at pre-trial he does not want custody)
Thanks for your replies
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