What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
What would the courts in Indiana view as neglect and/or abuse? My Grandson is 14. He lives with his father. His father is addicted to prescription drugs and abuses them. For years there has been a pattern of him getting his "medicine" and then sleeping for several days. He often forgets to pick his son up from school, he has lost his driver's license due to having an accident and no insurance, he will sleep for days and miss taking his son to Dr. appts, etc. He frequently allows his son to stay with daughter and/or me for sometimes as long as 2 or 3 months and then decide he wants the boy to move back. Once he moved back for two weeks and out of those two weeks (10 days of school) he missed two days and was late 5. Last month he forgot to pick his son up from school, so his daughter did. they tried to call him for over 24 hours and there was no answer. finally the daughter went to his house and he finally came to the door and said he was "sleeping". Last week his son was a pain in the A** and didn't get up to go to school in time. Dad then went back to bed and when the boy did finally get up, Dad refused to take him. This weekend the Dad refused to let the boy leave the house but ended up sleeping for two straight days. When his other son went to the house to check on his little brother, Dad would not get out of bed, so the older son took the younger son home with him. The boy's mother is dead and he is a good kid but with this kind of environment he can easily get off track. He has already started to show a few signs of rebellion. If this is not the right forum for this kind of help, tell me and I will look elsewhere. I do not want any smart ass remarks about me meddling. I need some advice and help on how to best handle this situation.
What would the courts in Indiana view as neglect and/or abuse? My Grandson is 14. He lives with his father. His father is addicted to prescription drugs and abuses them. For years there has been a pattern of him getting his "medicine" and then sleeping for several days. He often forgets to pick his son up from school, he has lost his driver's license due to having an accident and no insurance, he will sleep for days and miss taking his son to Dr. appts, etc. He frequently allows his son to stay with daughter and/or me for sometimes as long as 2 or 3 months and then decide he wants the boy to move back. Once he moved back for two weeks and out of those two weeks (10 days of school) he missed two days and was late 5. Last month he forgot to pick his son up from school, so his daughter did. they tried to call him for over 24 hours and there was no answer. finally the daughter went to his house and he finally came to the door and said he was "sleeping". Last week his son was a pain in the A** and didn't get up to go to school in time. Dad then went back to bed and when the boy did finally get up, Dad refused to take him. This weekend the Dad refused to let the boy leave the house but ended up sleeping for two straight days. When his other son went to the house to check on his little brother, Dad would not get out of bed, so the older son took the younger son home with him. The boy's mother is dead and he is a good kid but with this kind of environment he can easily get off track. He has already started to show a few signs of rebellion. If this is not the right forum for this kind of help, tell me and I will look elsewhere. I do not want any smart ass remarks about me meddling. I need some advice and help on how to best handle this situation.