Well, this isn't something I really wanted to disclose, but at one point a few years ago I was in the same position as the o.p. Almost identical circumstances. My charge was a misdemeanor I wasw just a kid and had no idea what to do. I was on probation at the time, so they had the legal means to lock me up immediately. I made a deal, or so I thought. Than I backed out. I know several people that have been tormented for doing this. He has no idea what rights he has left,and nobody looking out for his best interest. At best you would consider him extremely handicapped. He is being lead down the path. Also o.p said it is not the feds but the state. Also their deal is "It depends on the judge and prosecutor". That means zero. That is no deal,he has 2 choices. I would say 1 stop now. I cannot see your logic into getting further into that mess. Also he never got anything in writing, I thought every good lawyer said always get it in writing. They never planned on dismissing the charges,maybe he would have received some gratuity,maybe. Most likely in that lifesyle, making those decisions,he may very well see one of them again. He will be in a better position now. Also he wrote the thread because his conscience was bothering him, maybe this will take a little of the burden off. I understand the situation all to well. I did the right thing. Not proud of some of my past,but I can live with it.