To start off with, we live in Pennsylvania.
Around December his friend (who also happens to be the brother of my older sister's husband) offered him around $800 if my boyfriend allowed him to use his address to send a package of about 10lbs of weed to his house. Well from what I understand, the package was reported because the post office people could smell it through the box. My boyfriend when taken in for questioning admitted to allowing his friend to use his address.
My boyfriend didn't tell me about any of this until shortly after I told him I was pregnant. I'm extremely upset at my boyfriend for doing that because not only had I warned him that his friend was no good, but he's going to be a father and already does have another child with another girl (she left him for his now ex best friend). Granted, I wasn't pregnant at the time he did that but he should have still been thinking about how his daughter would feel about her dad being gone for awhile.
Anyways at first he told me that he was going away for about a year, then it got changed to three years, but now his lawyer is trying to get him probation.
My first question is how possible is it for him to just get probation? He has no other drug charges on his record and the only other thing he ever got in trouble with legally would be him getting into a car crash (he slipped on black ice) and his car wasn't insured. His license was suspended for a year.
My second question is if he does get probation, do you have any idea how long he'd be on it, what he'd have to do, and also say if I went into labor at some time late at night, would he be able to be at the hospital with me?
I'm about 16 weeks pregnant now, I'm 20 years old and he is 22.
Around December his friend (who also happens to be the brother of my older sister's husband) offered him around $800 if my boyfriend allowed him to use his address to send a package of about 10lbs of weed to his house. Well from what I understand, the package was reported because the post office people could smell it through the box. My boyfriend when taken in for questioning admitted to allowing his friend to use his address.
My boyfriend didn't tell me about any of this until shortly after I told him I was pregnant. I'm extremely upset at my boyfriend for doing that because not only had I warned him that his friend was no good, but he's going to be a father and already does have another child with another girl (she left him for his now ex best friend). Granted, I wasn't pregnant at the time he did that but he should have still been thinking about how his daughter would feel about her dad being gone for awhile.
Anyways at first he told me that he was going away for about a year, then it got changed to three years, but now his lawyer is trying to get him probation.
My first question is how possible is it for him to just get probation? He has no other drug charges on his record and the only other thing he ever got in trouble with legally would be him getting into a car crash (he slipped on black ice) and his car wasn't insured. His license was suspended for a year.
My second question is if he does get probation, do you have any idea how long he'd be on it, what he'd have to do, and also say if I went into labor at some time late at night, would he be able to be at the hospital with me?
I'm about 16 weeks pregnant now, I'm 20 years old and he is 22.
