I hear you, I have done so for years, and I can't stand by to watch this go on any longer. She has several illnesses and is disabled, and he's not taking proper care of her. I'm going to lose her if she doesn't get out of this lifestyle very soon. I'm in the middle of getting general durable power of attorney and health care power of attorney over her, as per her request. He's starting to try to push his weight around when it comes to making decisions on her behalf, and I'm not going to let it happen. They aren't married, but he's trying to dope her up and take control. I cannot just mind my own business anymore.This is your mother's relationship, not yours. Mind your own business. You can offer her moral support but stay out of their relationship. If he is physically abusive to her, tell her to make a police report.
Last edited: