*Concerned*
Junior Member
SAN BERNARDINO County, CALIFORNIA
I was Cited: PC272 - Minor Son Cited: HS 11358 & HS 11377(a)
Alright, I am scarred and need advice: I’m a 46 year old Single Mother; with no Father in the house. I’ve never been in trouble a day in my life. Hold down a great job for 23 yrs with the same employer, making a decent income. Own my home for 22 yrs. Have impeccable credit. I’m the sole provider. Although I may be losing my job to another country “Mexico” they call it near shoring.
My Son grew a pot plant in his closet. At first I didn’t know this – when I found out we went to war over it – we got rid of it - eventually he plants another, we went to war over it again - I ended up giving in to him and let him keep the plant - thinking this is a phase and it’ll pass. Although I seriously didn’t want it at my house! In my shameful confession I’ve never been the best disciplinarian and tend to give in to my kids; at times. My Son also has a temper and has punched multiple holes in his bedroom walls. Of which freaks me out while I realize it's not acceptable. However, it can be overwhelming. That said, at times I’ll avoid the conflict. Now I am faced with a worse conflict
To the point: An anonymous call was made to the high school hotline. Security Guard pulls my Son from class (it’s a Monday) per vice principal it’d been reported he was selling marijuana and ecstasy on school campus; although he wasn’t, of which resulted in NOT being expelled. They confiscated his cell phone; found pics of the plant (maybe stands 1foot tall) and txts talking about 2 for $10, searched his car; found nothing, questions him and it turns out my Son couldn’t lie and brought a police officer directly right over to my house. We’re extremely cooperative with the officer – I allowed him upstairs where we showed him the plants, he went through my Son’s room asks my Son to open up his safe, to my shock and NOT my acknowledgment there were 14 Ecstasy pills in his safe!!! Officer takes pictures of the plants says he’ll try to write up a ticket equivalent to possession of a joint. We wait all week - up to Friday and he finally delivers 4 citations:
I was cited
PC272 - Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
WI 660.5 - Parental Accountability
Minor Son Cited: (will be 18 in May 09)
HS 11358 - Cultivate Marijuana (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
HS 11377(a) - Possession of controlled substance (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
****In the End****
For me: It’s paramount I have NO criminal record. I "may" not have a job soon and can’t take the risk of not being employable. Do I need an attorney? If so; approx, how much cost?
For my Son: I don’t want him to be tried as an adult. Do we need an attorney? With out saying, I’m also very concerned about the high cost of fines that I simply can’t afford.
Thank you so much in advance for your time and considerateness What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I was Cited: PC272 - Minor Son Cited: HS 11358 & HS 11377(a)
Alright, I am scarred and need advice: I’m a 46 year old Single Mother; with no Father in the house. I’ve never been in trouble a day in my life. Hold down a great job for 23 yrs with the same employer, making a decent income. Own my home for 22 yrs. Have impeccable credit. I’m the sole provider. Although I may be losing my job to another country “Mexico” they call it near shoring.
My Son grew a pot plant in his closet. At first I didn’t know this – when I found out we went to war over it – we got rid of it - eventually he plants another, we went to war over it again - I ended up giving in to him and let him keep the plant - thinking this is a phase and it’ll pass. Although I seriously didn’t want it at my house! In my shameful confession I’ve never been the best disciplinarian and tend to give in to my kids; at times. My Son also has a temper and has punched multiple holes in his bedroom walls. Of which freaks me out while I realize it's not acceptable. However, it can be overwhelming. That said, at times I’ll avoid the conflict. Now I am faced with a worse conflict
To the point: An anonymous call was made to the high school hotline. Security Guard pulls my Son from class (it’s a Monday) per vice principal it’d been reported he was selling marijuana and ecstasy on school campus; although he wasn’t, of which resulted in NOT being expelled. They confiscated his cell phone; found pics of the plant (maybe stands 1foot tall) and txts talking about 2 for $10, searched his car; found nothing, questions him and it turns out my Son couldn’t lie and brought a police officer directly right over to my house. We’re extremely cooperative with the officer – I allowed him upstairs where we showed him the plants, he went through my Son’s room asks my Son to open up his safe, to my shock and NOT my acknowledgment there were 14 Ecstasy pills in his safe!!! Officer takes pictures of the plants says he’ll try to write up a ticket equivalent to possession of a joint. We wait all week - up to Friday and he finally delivers 4 citations:
I was cited
PC272 - Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
WI 660.5 - Parental Accountability
Minor Son Cited: (will be 18 in May 09)
HS 11358 - Cultivate Marijuana (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
HS 11377(a) - Possession of controlled substance (Misdemeanor circled on ticket)
****In the End****
For me: It’s paramount I have NO criminal record. I "may" not have a job soon and can’t take the risk of not being employable. Do I need an attorney? If so; approx, how much cost?
For my Son: I don’t want him to be tried as an adult. Do we need an attorney? With out saying, I’m also very concerned about the high cost of fines that I simply can’t afford.
Thank you so much in advance for your time and considerateness What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?