DUI and FTA

[Dekal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
In 1998, I recieved a DUI for a BAC of 0.11. I was visiting a family friend in NoCAL and went to the first court date and got a continuance. I was 22 yrs old and naive, i guess. The Family "friend" advised me to go back home and everything would be taken care of. I have renewed my license twice and went to do so this week, but was told by the clerk that I had a hold in CA. When I contacted CA, I was informed that I need to turn myself in, in CA. This isn't impossible, but Improbable. I have a full time job, am married with two kids and this economy has taken a toll. I understand that I am looking at lawyer fees and fines from the court. Adding a plane ticket and hotel fees are out of the question.
Is there a possiblity that this can all be done without the neccessity of my appearance? What would be accomplished if I turned myself in locally? I want to get this resolved and get on with my life. I haven't been in trouble since and I'd like to keep it that way.

[FlyingRon]

It's unlikely that you will escape appearing. As you've found out, the suspended license databases are finally getting national interconnection. If you don't "improbably" resolve this, it is only a matter of time until you're arrested for driving while suspended locally and have two charges to face. Surrendering local won't do much other than causing you further grief.

Call a lawyer in the jurisdiction in California you were charged in. Hopefully he can minimize the number of appearances and time you spend in California.