Thumbelina58
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What is the name of your state? Indiana
My sister-in-law gave her boyfriend "POA" about 4 years ago, before she went to serve a 3 year jail sentence. Since she has gotten out of jail, this "boyfriend" throws the "POA" and the supposed power it gives him, at her everytime she does something he doesn't want her to do. He has her convinced that the POA she gave him can not be revoked or cancelled, unless she goes before a Judge and that even then the Judge won't remove him unless HE agrees to it.
This is an example of what he tells her...
1. If you go out tonight, then I will call the police, show them my POA, and have them take you to jail.
He constantly tells her to "go ahead... all I gotta do is make ONE call and your @ss will go "right back to jail."
He also tells her that one of the conditions of her probation is that he has to remain her POA.
She doesn't own anything except clothing and a few knick knacks. She works (he refuses to) and he used his POA to have HER paycheck directly depositted into HIS bank account.
Other family members have tried to help her out, but she is scared to death she'll go back to jail.
Is he correct that the POA gives him all of these decisions?? Could it actually be in her probation condition like he says??
Thanx, THUMBELINA58
My sister-in-law gave her boyfriend "POA" about 4 years ago, before she went to serve a 3 year jail sentence. Since she has gotten out of jail, this "boyfriend" throws the "POA" and the supposed power it gives him, at her everytime she does something he doesn't want her to do. He has her convinced that the POA she gave him can not be revoked or cancelled, unless she goes before a Judge and that even then the Judge won't remove him unless HE agrees to it.
This is an example of what he tells her...
1. If you go out tonight, then I will call the police, show them my POA, and have them take you to jail.
He constantly tells her to "go ahead... all I gotta do is make ONE call and your @ss will go "right back to jail."
He also tells her that one of the conditions of her probation is that he has to remain her POA.
She doesn't own anything except clothing and a few knick knacks. She works (he refuses to) and he used his POA to have HER paycheck directly depositted into HIS bank account.
Other family members have tried to help her out, but she is scared to death she'll go back to jail.
Is he correct that the POA gives him all of these decisions?? Could it actually be in her probation condition like he says??
Thanx, THUMBELINA58