Guess Im helpless then at this point. Im a single mother with very little income. Guardianship costs thousands of dollars. I love my son very much and take care of him by myself. His father has never been around and I guess I just never thought anyone would question me. Social security doesnt even accept a POA they just had me sign for him with his hand. His doctors are the same since the beginning of his illness so they dont question me. I thank you for your advice but unfortunately Im at a loss again.
No, guardianship does not have to cost thousands of dollars. In fact, I can just about guarantee that you could do it without an attorney.
Call Virginia legal aid at: 1-866-534-5243
Explain to them that you have a profoundly disabled son who has turned 18 and that you need to obtain guardianship of him and cannot afford an attorney. Ask their advice as to how to obtain the necessary forms to file for guardianship of your son. Make it clear to them that if they cannot provide you active help, that all you need is to be pointed in the right direction. Its possible that they will agree to represent you, but if they cannot, I would be highly surprised if they were not highly accommodating in steering you in the right direction. Its possible even that they would tell you to contact social services and ask for their help. If there are any support organizations for your son's specific disability they also may have resources available to help or steer you in the right direction.
Then once you have filed the necessary paperwork, take your son with you to court for the hearing. It will be clear to the judge that your son is profoundly disabled and the judge will automatically award you guardianship.
It may take you some footwork to do it, but it can be done...and it can be done without spending thousands on an attorney.