Just under 100k. It's $98,950.24 to be exact.
To anteater questions:
Mother is designated beneficiary of 401k. I'm his contingent beneficiary in his trust and will. The trust does indicate the 401k should flow through the trust, however he has a will naming me the executor and his contingent beneficiary. He set up the 401k to flow through the trust to me, and forgot to change his mother's name to mine on the 401k's. The 401k would have exempt me from taxes because it was named in the trust and I'm the successor trustee, however since he didn't change the name change to mine, she will be subject to taxes per lawyer.
He was disabled, and very ill his last year on this earth. This big issue here is the mother doesn't want to share this money at all even though she knows of his intentions. Instead she wants me to sell what I have received to take care of the his bills, which isn't very much (two cars, and a small piece of property). When we didn't know who was the designated beneficiary on the 401k, I told her if it was in my name, I would share it with her. However, that wasn't offered to me when the shoe was on the other foot.
The tragic part about this situation is the fact that I grew up with my cousin and his mother, my aunt in a family environment meaning we considered each other as brother and sister, and his mother was my mother. My real mother died when I was nine. My father's sister took me in as one of hers. My aunt is the only person I have left in our family besides my four children. When my cousin named me as beneficiary, executor, successor trustee in his will and trust, he named my children if I were to precede him, not his mother.