akiravalor
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? IL
My mother died when my brother and I were very young. My Father chose not to keep in touch with my mothers relatives. Out of the blue my brother got a call in regards to a recent estate sale. Turns out our mothers mother was recently committed to a home and is somewhat dellusional. Her caregiver assumed power of attorney claiming there were no living relatives and controls all the assets from the sale and is in the process of selling our grandmothers home . This caregiver has made it clear they will only speak to us through her attorney and has even tried to block us from visitation. We are concerned she is being taken advantage of since this follows this familiar pattern ... "seize control of the elder and her finances; get a power of attorney; transfer property to the abuser's name; and above all, keep other children and caring relatives away so they don't discover what's going on. "
She seems to be getting decent care at the home, but she is in need of glasses, teeth and other miscellaneous items that could be provided from funds raised in the estate sale. Unfortunately we have no power to make sure this happens, we cannot even discuss her health treatment with her doctors. What should we do?
My mother died when my brother and I were very young. My Father chose not to keep in touch with my mothers relatives. Out of the blue my brother got a call in regards to a recent estate sale. Turns out our mothers mother was recently committed to a home and is somewhat dellusional. Her caregiver assumed power of attorney claiming there were no living relatives and controls all the assets from the sale and is in the process of selling our grandmothers home . This caregiver has made it clear they will only speak to us through her attorney and has even tried to block us from visitation. We are concerned she is being taken advantage of since this follows this familiar pattern ... "seize control of the elder and her finances; get a power of attorney; transfer property to the abuser's name; and above all, keep other children and caring relatives away so they don't discover what's going on. "
She seems to be getting decent care at the home, but she is in need of glasses, teeth and other miscellaneous items that could be provided from funds raised in the estate sale. Unfortunately we have no power to make sure this happens, we cannot even discuss her health treatment with her doctors. What should we do?