earlofcrankcase
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What is the name of your state? TEXAS
I have my mothers house lsited for sale & want to learn all I can to avoid any pitfalls before hand.
I am executer of my mother's estate. I have a dpoa. I am the sole heir. I do not have a gaurdianship drawn up. But from the nursing home horor stories I have read searching here it is first on the list. What else?
I dont want to have any estate squandering issues with gov.
But I dont trust the government either.
" case in point "
I did not file my first buisness equipment rendition on time. The state guesstimated I had $120,000 worth of equipment. Because I did not protest this in time I had to pay tax on 80,000 dollars worth of equipment I didn't own.
My cpa says to talk to an estate atturney. A lot of posts here suggest talking to a cpa.
So what's up? get a new cpa? what?
Below is dribble writen for moral advice if their is anyone here qualified.
I used to think mom's estate would survive her. But Altzheimers is a long, hard, end.
I used to think I would get my little nut in the end. But I'm done with thinking like a squirl. If I can keep the wife & my love for her that is enough gold.
I pour concrete for a living & the idea of things like finding banana peals in the cabinets being to hard to bare has me at a loss. I don't want to let my greed get in the way of choosing what is best. I don't want my mother in the company of starngers. I dont want to loose the love. The time for hard choices is here. I allways knew this would end badley. Gut says hold on to the woman at all costs. But my mother & my father are the reason I exist. How do you value that & still value yourself if you give in before it is time? Maybe it is time? I wouldn't leave a six year old home alone during the day & that is about where mom is at now. My biggest block is not wanting to face this day. I wish the day for the choice would never come. If anybody out there has some juice with the man. I don't want to die or pay my taxs either.
Any advice?
Clues to look for in finding the best home, ect ?
I have my mothers house lsited for sale & want to learn all I can to avoid any pitfalls before hand.
I am executer of my mother's estate. I have a dpoa. I am the sole heir. I do not have a gaurdianship drawn up. But from the nursing home horor stories I have read searching here it is first on the list. What else?
I dont want to have any estate squandering issues with gov.
But I dont trust the government either.
" case in point "
I did not file my first buisness equipment rendition on time. The state guesstimated I had $120,000 worth of equipment. Because I did not protest this in time I had to pay tax on 80,000 dollars worth of equipment I didn't own.
My cpa says to talk to an estate atturney. A lot of posts here suggest talking to a cpa.
So what's up? get a new cpa? what?
Below is dribble writen for moral advice if their is anyone here qualified.
I used to think mom's estate would survive her. But Altzheimers is a long, hard, end.
I used to think I would get my little nut in the end. But I'm done with thinking like a squirl. If I can keep the wife & my love for her that is enough gold.
I pour concrete for a living & the idea of things like finding banana peals in the cabinets being to hard to bare has me at a loss. I don't want to let my greed get in the way of choosing what is best. I don't want my mother in the company of starngers. I dont want to loose the love. The time for hard choices is here. I allways knew this would end badley. Gut says hold on to the woman at all costs. But my mother & my father are the reason I exist. How do you value that & still value yourself if you give in before it is time? Maybe it is time? I wouldn't leave a six year old home alone during the day & that is about where mom is at now. My biggest block is not wanting to face this day. I wish the day for the choice would never come. If anybody out there has some juice with the man. I don't want to die or pay my taxs either.
Any advice?
Clues to look for in finding the best home, ect ?