Adultery considerations

My "husband" filed for divorce in March 2000 using mental cruelty and irreconcilable differences as grounds. He also filed for full custody. I found out about his affair in June 1999 (he walked out) and we reconciled when it supposedly ended in August 1999. Of course affair continued, he walked out again in November 1999. Now I find out he has been bringing this woman around our "three" girls, telling them they need to get to know her. It's made them upset and placed them in very compromising positions. I also find out he's exposed them to pornography by way of videos and magazines he keeps laying around his place. I've also found some in my residence which he hide here during our so called reconciliation. He's missed over a month of his scheduled visitations using excuses of not having food or any money. Yet he is able to spend money on this other woman and her son. I've got tons of other information about him along these lines. My question is will the judge take his "lifestyle" and the fact that he does not supply the necessities for his children when they are with him in to consideration? He and his lawyer did not even show up in court for the prove-up and he hasn't provided pension & deffered comp. information to us requested over four months ago.

All of the above will be taken into consideration. I presume you have an attorney to handle the custody battle ??

Just remember to document EVERYTHING.. especially the missed visitations..