I appreciate the info. Thanks. <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by ohbratti1:
In a similar situation, I spoke with an attorney and was advised that I can file my "paperwork" before the birth, but that nothing could really be "done" until the baby was born. The attorney further advised me that if I file before giving birth, I stand a greater chance of recovering half my medical expenses from the "dad"….if that's what I wanted to do. My plan is to file the week I give birth. I'm not concerned about recovering any money I've paid out…I chose to have my baby and will gladly pay the cost, but I want to ensure that I get custody established as quickly as possible. It may just be a formality in my situation, but it will give me peace of mind. You never know how someone will react to their newborn child. Some are very blasé and then do a complete 180 when they see/hold that baby for the first time. It's such an overwhelming emotion that can cause the coldest person to turn to putty. Better safe than sorry.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>