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Manipulated
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I am the custodial parent although I have a joint parenting agreement (Illinois). My ex has visitation on Wed. and every other weekend. Occasionally I need to change a visitation, due to business travel or other personnel needs. When I ask him to keep the children over night and take them to school the next day, or change his visitation to another day in the week, he refuses. He says that if I don't meet him at the assigned times, I will be held on abandonment. I cannot have anyone else pick up the children (we meet at a public place) as he is verbally abusive. In addition, I have an order of protection that prevents him from coming to my home. How do I handle his manipulations? It should be noted that I have been flexible when he needed to make adjustments.
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