Well, I have some good news for you... The GP rights to visitation were stuck down by the United States Supreme Court this year who basically said that GP have absolutely no rights to visitation where the child is being cared for and not being neglected by the nature parent(s).
However, although this has not filtered down to all states, it is believed that no judge would rule against the natural parents in favour of the GP when they know subseqent appeals would be overturned.
Regardless of all the above, she is either abusing or neglecting the child. If you have custody of this child, then either,
Refuse to allow any further visitation and let them start legal proceding, or
Get an attorney and seek to have the visitation judgement overturned.
Either way, gather up all evidence, document everything and get as many eye witness acounts as possible.
Personally, if I thought my child was being abused or neglected.. then I would not be sending my child out to be with those people.
Supreme Court Ruling TROXEL et vir. v. GRANVILLE. Decided June 5, 2000. You can read at,
http://caselaw.findlaw.com/cgi-bin/getcase.pl?court=US&navby=case&vol=000&invol=99-138
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SMILE - Start Making It Livable for Everyone
Divorce is a process over which children have no control. Children should not be its victims.
When parents are under stress, it is harder to be in touch with their children's pain and anguish.
It takes time, effort, and planning on the part of the parents to be able to provide for the children's needs.
In the crisis of divorce, parents may put their children on hold while they attend to adult problems first.
Sometimes separating/divorced parents find that their roles and expectations are undefined and cloudy.
If handled properly, divorce need not be devastating for children.
[This message has been edited by usdeeper (edited July 26, 2000).]