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whitsmom
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I went to court to start child support for my nine year old daughter last week. (To remind you...I was with my ex boyfriend for nine years, he was very abusive and spent a lot of time in jail for it...he didn't sign the bc of our daughter...I have been married to another man for almost 5 years (since my daughter was 4)...no court orders for custody/visitation/support until this support order last week...he rarely asks to see the child...1-3 times per year)
When we went to court for support last week, he spouted off in the waiting area about wanting a DNA test and how he was "illiterate and indigent". He changed his tune in front of the judge...didn't deny paternity of our daughter, she had to order him to fill out the paperwork for child support enforcement. He lied and told the judge he makes $6 per hour so his child support is a whopping $224 a month which includes 1/2 my daycare and back support. It was ordered that my husband continue to pay for her health insurance. My ex swears up and down he won't pay.
Do I understand correctly that since he declared paternity of our daughter, support enforcement will notify vital stats and his name will be added to the bc?
Well, after court, he told me that he would soon be "dragging" me to court for visitation. I have never initiated custody/visitation through the court because he saw her so rarely, it wasn't a priority.
If he does happen to file, we both live in FL but in different counties. On the UCCJA it will show that she has lived with me in our county for 5 years. Will his county take jurisdiction or will they tell him to file where the child lives?
I doubt he would on his own take me to court, but his girlfriend is very upset that he now has to pay me support and will probably "encourage" him. Maybe I should get the ball rolling here myself? He has no driver's license and has that history of abuse with me, so I have always insisted that he stay at his brother and his wife's house on the rare occasion he asks to see her(supervised.
If I petition him here, can I ask for supervised visitation not to exceed two weekends per month? (Just in case he decides to make me "pay" for him having to pay support and start injecting himself into my and my daughter's life when he hasn't been very interested before.)
Sorry so long...lots of questions...thanks for your help.
When we went to court for support last week, he spouted off in the waiting area about wanting a DNA test and how he was "illiterate and indigent". He changed his tune in front of the judge...didn't deny paternity of our daughter, she had to order him to fill out the paperwork for child support enforcement. He lied and told the judge he makes $6 per hour so his child support is a whopping $224 a month which includes 1/2 my daycare and back support. It was ordered that my husband continue to pay for her health insurance. My ex swears up and down he won't pay.
Do I understand correctly that since he declared paternity of our daughter, support enforcement will notify vital stats and his name will be added to the bc?
Well, after court, he told me that he would soon be "dragging" me to court for visitation. I have never initiated custody/visitation through the court because he saw her so rarely, it wasn't a priority.
If he does happen to file, we both live in FL but in different counties. On the UCCJA it will show that she has lived with me in our county for 5 years. Will his county take jurisdiction or will they tell him to file where the child lives?
I doubt he would on his own take me to court, but his girlfriend is very upset that he now has to pay me support and will probably "encourage" him. Maybe I should get the ball rolling here myself? He has no driver's license and has that history of abuse with me, so I have always insisted that he stay at his brother and his wife's house on the rare occasion he asks to see her(supervised.
If I petition him here, can I ask for supervised visitation not to exceed two weekends per month? (Just in case he decides to make me "pay" for him having to pay support and start injecting himself into my and my daughter's life when he hasn't been very interested before.)
Sorry so long...lots of questions...thanks for your help.