His Ex is out to get me!

My husband's ex-wife continuously dumps her 2 kids (which are my step-son's half brother and sister)on our doorstep to see their brother. With or without permision to do so. The last time they were visiting, the older boy, 15yo, shoved his sister and then tried to "blow it off" by saying she always exagerate. Having enough of teenage attitudes I got his attention by pulling the chair out from under him and proceeded to give him the riot act about shoving and pushing little girls, she is 6. Then the 15yo and the step-son claim they are afraid of me. And the ex had filed criminal child abuse against me. She also called Child Protective Services (CPS Gestapo) but that backfired on her cause they yanked her kids out of her home cause she was out of state and the kids were left in a dangerous situation. I can't explain the insanity of this woman. But the short of it is that she knows how to manipulate the system and appear the innocent, good mom and everyone else are degenerates. I expect to be arrested in a couple of days but released because of lact of evidence. This woman needs to be taught a lesson but I am not sure how to go about it legally.

Can your husband set up some type of schedule for visitation for the other two children? I'm assuming they are the ex wife's children from a previous relationship. If anything, she should have the child living with you go visit her. I wouldn't worry about child services either. Unless your not telling the whole story, pulling a chair out from under a 15 year old isn't abuse. Make it a point not to flare up in front of the kids. They could be acting up intentionally to get a reaction. Also, maybe they feel like nobody wants them if mom is dropping them off all the time and leaving them alone. You could be the one to benefit here, just by being nice to them. They may turn out to be your best defense. I'm not saying that you aren't already, but make the extra effort anyway. Last piece of advise, stay away from the ex-wife. You don't have to do anything. What goes around comes around. People like that are miserable and there isn't a thing you can do to change her. I've been there. Hope this helps!