husband got custody, part II,only 12 hours left, PLEASE HELP

If more info is needed, please tell me. There are no extenuating circumstances. A lawyer I know spoke with another domestic relations attorney who told him that the judge that heard my case ALWAYS rules against a live in boyfriend/girlfriend. My ex also had someone live with him briefly but she is already gone. My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months now and have future plans. My baby is too little to be shoved back and forth like this. If boyfriend is no longer in household, can I get her back? NOW? Is there any emergency hearing I can requst, and based on what grounds? She is not being abused, I just feel very strongly about her getting up and out the door at five a.m. especially when she is sick and it's so cold out if she doesn't have to. I live within 7 minutes of ex. He hasn't had a problem with leaving her with me all this time, but will now drag her up I95 to Wash, D.C. to go to his sisters. My baby needs me! I have never denied him visitation. This is nuts. Please help. I kept her last night going on the notion that he had to give me 24 hour notice for change of plans in visitation. As of Monday he says things are going back to me having custody and now he says he's taking her back. He gives me only the reason of his sister needing the money to watch Kali so she gets her. Please!!!!! help.

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kris

[LegalBeagle]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by kristitoyou:
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If more info is needed, please tell me. There are no extenuating circumstances. A lawyer I know spoke with another domestic relations attorney who told him that the judge that heard my case ALWAYS rules against a live in boyfriend/girlfriend. My ex also had someone live with him briefly but she is already gone. My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months now and have future plans. My baby is too little to be shoved back and forth like this. If boyfriend is no longer in household, can I get her back? NOW? Is there any emergency hearing I can requst, and based on what grounds? She is not being abused, I just feel very strongly about her getting up and out the door at five a.m. especially when she is sick and it's so cold out if she doesn't have to. I live within 7 minutes of ex. He hasn't had a problem with leaving her with me all this time, but will now drag her up I95 to Wash, D.C. to go to his sisters. My baby needs me! I have never denied him visitation. This is nuts. Please help. I kept her last night going on the notion that he had to give me 24 hour notice for change of plans in visitation. As of Monday he says things are going back to me having custody and now he says he's taking her back. He gives me only the reason of his sister needing the money to watch Kali so she gets her. Please!!!!! help.

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You had better give the child back otherwise it will serious go against you. I think I said in your other thread to document everything.. ie, like she is taken out at 5am.. maybe even that he wants custody so he can pay his sister daycare.. etc.. without an attorney you do will not have much luck with an emergency hearing.. when is the actual trial date ?

Document everything...

I have an attorney that I have no faith in...he doesn't seem well versed in domestic relaions and I seem to have to call daily. He advised me to keep her last night due to me ex not giving me 24 hour notice of the change in circumstances. I do document everything, and have taped conversations (of course not of the most important one, Mon night)and have it taped him taking her out at 5 am. Can't I do ANYTHING now?

The actual court date is not until Dec. 6th. This is killing me. He has had nothing to do with her other than weekends (sometimes) now because of money he can get away with this?! I lost custody solely due to live in b/f. That still holds that much weight? Even my ex said his lawyer was floored that they got custody. What are the chances of this sticking?

forgot the icon, thanks for your help. please read last 2 question replies(?)and help.

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kris

[LegalBeagle]

The chances that anything can be done before the 6th Dec is silm.. but you have a fair to good chance of winning custody then. However, do you want to rest all this custody dispute on the shoulders of an attorney who doesn't seem well versed in domestic relations ???

I don't realy have a choice, have already spent over 5,000.00 since
march on this. I am tapped out completely. Just spoke with my atty, he is filing for emergency hearing based on my ex going against advice of physician, and not providing her with adequate care. Does this all sound logical to you? Headvised me totake my daughter to doctor today again and get in writing that she should not be placed in any daycare situation, and to ask my ex when he calls for her tonight if he plans on working tomorrow anyway, if he says yes, atty advised me to keep her, if he says no and he will stay home with er, I willbeat his house at 4:30 a.m. to g on tape him leaving with her. Do you agree with all this? Thanks again for your help!

[LegalBeagle]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by kristitoyou:
[b]I don't realy have a choice, have already spent over 5,000.00 since
march on this. I am tapped out completely. Just spoke with my atty, he is filing for emergency hearing based on my ex going against advice of physician, and not providing her with adequate care. Does this all sound logical to you? Headvised me totake my daughter to doctor today again and get in writing that she should not be placed in any daycare situation, and to ask my ex when he calls for her tonight if he plans on working tomorrow anyway, if he says yes, atty advised me to keep her, if he says no and he will stay home with er, I willbeat his house at 4:30 a.m. to g on tape him leaving with her. Do you agree with all this? Thanks again for your help![/b]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I agree with what the attorney is telling you.. and that is grounds to file for an emergency change if the childs health is being neglected.

thank you very much!!!!!!!!!

and another to lawrat