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Zoobie
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I want to sue the state of Connecticut for harrassment.
My husband has been paying child support for the last 8 years and the kid turns 18 in 11 months. When the order was put into effect we explained to the judge and the state of CT (who is involved because the childs guardian, my mother in law is on welfare) that he was self employed and we dont receive regular pay checks, we sometimes go 6-8-12 weeks with no money coming in. when we receive a check, I pay all the back support plus as far in advance as aI can afford. We also explained to the judge that we have a terminally ill child together and cant afford health insurance and therefore, some months his medical expenses are astronomical, so that may hinder our paying on time.
The judge said do the best you can. We have never been more than 3 weeks behind despite all these problems but the state has hauled his ass in to court every 2 months for the last 5 years, he then has to take time off work and thus, loses money. Every time he has gone to court, the charges have been dismissed because we are found to be in compliance.
The point is is that we are agreeable to paying, just we are not always able to pay on time. They have again issued a warrant for his arrest becaue we are 2 weeks behind, I am promised a check from a company that owes us money at the end of the week. I will then pay the support like I always have.
This is getting rediculous and I feel like we are being harrassed. There are people, like the childs bio mom that does'nt ever pay her support that was ordered by the court, she just keeps moving every time they find her, and they make no real effort to locate or enforce the order.
Do I have a chance at winning against the state? Anyone ever sued their state for harassment??? HELP!!!!!
My husband has been paying child support for the last 8 years and the kid turns 18 in 11 months. When the order was put into effect we explained to the judge and the state of CT (who is involved because the childs guardian, my mother in law is on welfare) that he was self employed and we dont receive regular pay checks, we sometimes go 6-8-12 weeks with no money coming in. when we receive a check, I pay all the back support plus as far in advance as aI can afford. We also explained to the judge that we have a terminally ill child together and cant afford health insurance and therefore, some months his medical expenses are astronomical, so that may hinder our paying on time.
The judge said do the best you can. We have never been more than 3 weeks behind despite all these problems but the state has hauled his ass in to court every 2 months for the last 5 years, he then has to take time off work and thus, loses money. Every time he has gone to court, the charges have been dismissed because we are found to be in compliance.
The point is is that we are agreeable to paying, just we are not always able to pay on time. They have again issued a warrant for his arrest becaue we are 2 weeks behind, I am promised a check from a company that owes us money at the end of the week. I will then pay the support like I always have.
This is getting rediculous and I feel like we are being harrassed. There are people, like the childs bio mom that does'nt ever pay her support that was ordered by the court, she just keeps moving every time they find her, and they make no real effort to locate or enforce the order.
Do I have a chance at winning against the state? Anyone ever sued their state for harassment??? HELP!!!!!